strong like bull
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 5, 2002
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lately ive been really good about developing a "natural" sense when it comes to DJing. being relaxed, following your tesosterone, etc. tonight, however, i slipped a bit.
ive been seeing a girl for about a month now. we work together (red flag, i know - but dont care) and hit it off. about three weeks into dating, she came to me and asked to be exclusive. i like her style, so i agreed.
things have been going great. even though we see eachother at work 3-4 times a week, the interest level is still high. i usually get bored pretty quick, but shes working some magic. same goes for her end.
anyhow, tonight she came over to my place for the first time. shes 18, im 19. she has high morals - lots of class, high ASD, etc. she is a virgin. very naive, very innocent.
i live with a couple of room mates, who were in the living room, so i took her into my room to chill. this way, wed be alone. we sit on the bed, then after a min i lay down and tell her to do the same. she was hesitant at first but relaxed and did it.
so were talking, laying next to eachother and watching a movie. during the conversation, she pulls me towards her to kiss. bah. we were watching Jaws, shed never seen it and kept talking about how she wanted to see the shark. coincidentally, right when she started to pull, the shark came onscreen.
lol
i pointed to the tv and said, "youre missing it!" at the exact same time she was ready to kiss. doh
she kinda pulled away and turned over. 5 mins later, the doorbell rang. it was her dad who came to pick her up. she wasnt upset, but i could see that i missed an obvious moment.
an hour in my bed and i didnt make out with her. didnt even try to. id been purposely taking it patiently with her, knowing how inexperienced she is. at the same time, however, i understand that when a woman is sexually primed you to step up. be a man and take her. you know?
i think im over-reacting, but i wouldnt mind some input on the situation.
thanks in advance.
ive been seeing a girl for about a month now. we work together (red flag, i know - but dont care) and hit it off. about three weeks into dating, she came to me and asked to be exclusive. i like her style, so i agreed.
things have been going great. even though we see eachother at work 3-4 times a week, the interest level is still high. i usually get bored pretty quick, but shes working some magic. same goes for her end.
anyhow, tonight she came over to my place for the first time. shes 18, im 19. she has high morals - lots of class, high ASD, etc. she is a virgin. very naive, very innocent.
i live with a couple of room mates, who were in the living room, so i took her into my room to chill. this way, wed be alone. we sit on the bed, then after a min i lay down and tell her to do the same. she was hesitant at first but relaxed and did it.
so were talking, laying next to eachother and watching a movie. during the conversation, she pulls me towards her to kiss. bah. we were watching Jaws, shed never seen it and kept talking about how she wanted to see the shark. coincidentally, right when she started to pull, the shark came onscreen.
lol
i pointed to the tv and said, "youre missing it!" at the exact same time she was ready to kiss. doh
she kinda pulled away and turned over. 5 mins later, the doorbell rang. it was her dad who came to pick her up. she wasnt upset, but i could see that i missed an obvious moment.
an hour in my bed and i didnt make out with her. didnt even try to. id been purposely taking it patiently with her, knowing how inexperienced she is. at the same time, however, i understand that when a woman is sexually primed you to step up. be a man and take her. you know?
i think im over-reacting, but i wouldnt mind some input on the situation.
thanks in advance.
