"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bro's whats your opinion about thiss

TheGambino

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I wanna know how you guys deal with long distant plates that hang out or go semi exclusive or how you wanna call it with new guys. Even tho you never been in the situation tell me your opinion.

Some background
Met this extravert, crazy chick on vacation, ''puppy love'' with her, f8cked her good and used all DJ knowledge I know while gaming her. Sexual attraction was over the top. I had fun with her, push/pulled and showed her I can get with any other girl in stead of her and she submitted herself too me for sure, no headaches everything was good.

I left Morocco she posted some sh1t on facebook with pictures that say miss you, why did you leave and commented on my pictures with hearts the following weeks. She called me once but she was hanging out with guys I dont like so I kept it short and made it clear that I was uninterested in talking when she called me with guys around her not by telling her but by being short and cold. I messaged her weeks later on Facebook, something like Im coming to Morocco in about 3 months, r you going to be in *namecity, she ignored me. Anyway I moved on, spin plates coz that's what we do in this situations :yes:

Some new guy posts stuff on her profile page like 'Im thinking about you (with a heart)' and she replied with a blowing kiss and a heart. His status changed in 'married with' her, she didnt react yet. Lmfao stupid afc...

One big mistake while scrolling I liked that post from him on her facebook profile for at least 30secss and she was online but sh1t happens haha.

Im going to Morocco in 1 month, ill stay for 30days. I could hit her up or go to the poolbar where she used to hang out. Would u guys talk to her, f8ck her again or just forget about her and be distant when you bump in2 her. To be honest I really don't care, I could have fun again, drink and f8ck, but I just wanna know you guys opinion on the situation and how would you deal with this.

No worries at all, I seriousley don't feel jack sh1t about her anymore, I have to admit first weeks were tough, checking her page every day coz we spent 11 days with eachother, she ignored her mom and slept at my place.

But know I don't care anymore just curious
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gravityeyelids

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TheGambino said:
No worries at all, I seriousley don't feel jack sh1t about her anymore, I have to admit first weeks were tough, checking her page every day coz we spent 11 days with eachother, she ignored her mom and slept at my place.

But know I don't care anymore just curious
First of all, admit that you do feel for her. Especially since you're posting about her and asking us what the best route to keep seeing her is.

Second, she could probably sense your jealousy regarding other guys she sees. She can smell the bullsh!t and discovered that its not congruent with your "I can get any girl I want" attitude. Guys who can get any girl they want do not give two sh!ts about some easy girl they met on vacation talking to other guys. The answer here is that you do not let her interactions with other guys affect you in any way. She is not your girlfriend. Nor would you want her to be, based on what you've shared with us.

Getting all pouty after you hear that she's hanging out with other guys is an insecure move. She made a call to you specifically while hanging out with these guys and you're going to get butthurt about it? YOU are the one she is calling while hanging with these guys. What does that communicate to you?? That you are more important than the guys she is with and her interest level is higher for you than them. And how did you react to her nice gesture? By being cold and withdrawn. No wonder she doesn't wanna talk to you anymore.
 

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Since you already banged her Gambino you already got what you wanted. Since she is ignoring you there is no need to even hit her up. Who cares who she is hanging out with. She isn't your girlfriend so she can hang out who she wants.

I don't get why all of guys get hung up over one chick who isn't your girlfriend. Fvck them once and be done with them. Other dudes will be fvcking them too after you. There's nothing you can do to prevent that. Enjoy the sex and don't worry about all that drama bvllsh1t. It's also best not to add plates or potential plates to your facebook. They will just add drama to your life.

Look for new women while you're there. Long distance stuff is a waste of time. since she is long distance there is no reason to care what she is doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sylvester the cat

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TheGambino said:
To be honest I really don't care,

No worries at all, I seriousley don't feel jack sh1t about her anymore, I have to admit first weeks were tough, checking her page every day coz we spent 11 days with eachother, she ignored her mom and slept at my place.

But know I don't care anymore just curious
^ this here is why a year after joining this site you are still asking these questions and why you cannot answer them yourself. your post betrays your state of inner confusion and total lack of congruity. you say one thing but you mean another. there is no way you would have created this thread if you didn't care.

this isn't even about the girl in question now. this is about you. your lack of inner game is why you are still asking these questions.
 

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Remember another girl you slept with? One you didn't make a thread about?

That's what it feels like to really not care.
You obviously do care a little bit about this one. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

She has obviously moved on, so I would suggest you forget about her.
 

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Your princess is in another castle. But she already was in yours. Just move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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