"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bros over hoes ( Friendship)

BongDuy

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so how do you guys treat your fellow man? Your bros ( and if you have any girls that are JUST friends )? Im wondering because im trying to improve as a person overall, and that means i want to treat my friends better and keep them, because i know a lot of people, but i have very very few close friends. What are some characteristics that cannot be forgotten if you want to be a good friend?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guoy Darko

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Me and my friends eat at eachothers places every now and then. We cook for a group and then later play Risk! (the boardgame) or go to a bar. This is very good for the groupbonding. If you want to become a better friend then it's good to maybe do the same thing, but with one guy. People in groups are always different than 101.

It's also good to show that they can count on you when they're in trouble or feel bad. Ask personal questions, how they feel. When you know someone has a sick grandpa, ask them about it.
 

FairShake

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I would say the number one thing to be a good friend is Reliability. You have to be there and be aware. Sorry, cheesy. But seriously, you need to spend time with them and be a good friend. Know when to have fun, know when to make jokes, know when to listen to jokes, know when to lend an ear, and know when to tell them to man the **** up (or woman the **** up) and get over it.

You won't be perfect but if you make a good effort a good person will recognize it.
 

Julian

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To me the most important thing in a friend is trust and honesty.
 
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