"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

bros over hoes ( Friendship)

BongDuy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2009
Messages
529
Reaction score
5
Location
South Florida
so how do you guys treat your fellow man? Your bros ( and if you have any girls that are JUST friends )? Im wondering because im trying to improve as a person overall, and that means i want to treat my friends better and keep them, because i know a lot of people, but i have very very few close friends. What are some characteristics that cannot be forgotten if you want to be a good friend?
 
Last edited:

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Guoy Darko

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2006
Messages
297
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Me and my friends eat at eachothers places every now and then. We cook for a group and then later play Risk! (the boardgame) or go to a bar. This is very good for the groupbonding. If you want to become a better friend then it's good to maybe do the same thing, but with one guy. People in groups are always different than 101.

It's also good to show that they can count on you when they're in trouble or feel bad. Ask personal questions, how they feel. When you know someone has a sick grandpa, ask them about it.
 

FairShake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2008
Messages
2,405
Reaction score
306
I would say the number one thing to be a good friend is Reliability. You have to be there and be aware. Sorry, cheesy. But seriously, you need to spend time with them and be a good friend. Know when to have fun, know when to make jokes, know when to listen to jokes, know when to lend an ear, and know when to tell them to man the **** up (or woman the **** up) and get over it.

You won't be perfect but if you make a good effort a good person will recognize it.
 

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
To me the most important thing in a friend is trust and honesty.
 
Top