so i have a question concerning this as well, or rather a frustration
i basically got this girl to do stuff with my friends and in trying to help out my friend A, drug him along, and our other friend B came cause he had nothing better to do
-i thought it was a party but when we got there it was just her, drunk ; also i never mentioned bring my friends
-my friend A told me he liked her from a previous group thing (which i actually invited her to as well) , and this guy has serious women problems and really needs to try, and i confinde with him etc , so i STEPPED ASIDE
-throughout the night i get comments from her like "you are so flaky, i just dont know"
-i back off the whole night basically and let them talk, while talking to other people around, when i do talk to her i get dumb comments from friend A trying to put me down for smoking, to which i just ignore but still the way he was acting wasnt helping him
ok so a week rolls by, my friend A is still interested, and i get a hunch friend B is also. anyways at this time i was dating her friend, and upon her friend saying she was "tired" i invited her and wasnt totally sure my intentions albeit i was trying to give friend A some hope and help still
-alright so this night i screwed up and drank too much
-end up back at her place and my friend A is not helping himself or me by talking about my girl problems and getting me started talking about it myself
-needless to say im getting a little disappointed in my friend A
-just as a sidenote when my friends talk to this girl they both just let her talk about complete crap and her problems, when i talk to her its all flirty and upbeat
-anyways i pass out while those 3 are watching a movie
-she ends up giving her number to friend B while im sleeping and they leave, he didnt ask for it, she took the initiative
the next weekend
-friend B invites me to a party she invited him to, and I go because i figure ill meet new people, etc
-she basically leaves us and some other friends and dosent come back until after the party is broken up by cops
ok so now we are to this past weekend. i invite my friend B to this place we have been going to every weekend. he backs out because he finally calls this girl and gets her on a date. he asks me a bunch of questions about what to do and i give him good advice.
-he ends up watching a movie at her place and making out, but he tells me he is worried that she took the intiative, because she grabbed his hands
ok so the following day, this girl, friend B, and I attend the same social event
-she flirts with me like never before and i repeatedly diss her, she does a bunch of kino like never before right in front of friend B
-i would assume this is a test for friend B but i overheard her and some friends talking about making mistakes or something.
-my friend B exclaims "oh i missed a call from you" to her when we are talking, she just says "oh i was just returning a call, i didnt leave a message"
//if you made it this far, you are less ADD than me, congrats
luckily this girl leaves in a week or two for summer
so i guess im trying to evaluate what can be learned from this.
first of all, i dont think my friends seem to not support me when i try to help them out, and i dont think ill step aside again in the slightest
secondly, i would like opinions on this girl's actions. the egocentric side of me wants to think that she is doing this to try to get to me, even though that is stupid for her to do
thirdy, as far as what i think about this girl, i think i would ONS her still but, yeah.. i always watch her just let guys listen to her crap, and it is quite amusing, and this type of thing is what makes me think her and friend B will never work, she acts like she does around so many guys with him
anyways .... back to my paper ..
