Bros be4 ho's? or not? need help!!

[Badmannaz]

yeah so me and my friend have been chilling for awhile. he met this chick at the club and everyscince he's been trying to mess with her....they've went out plenty of times and every time i ask him "so what you do you make a move?" he always says "naw we're not ready for all that!!!


we get at a party and i finally meet this girl....she's a hb8 (7-face and 9 body) be having the personality i have i may come off flirtatious...yea well me and her talk a little and she's starting to open up to me....now she likes my friend but there not together or nothing so i don't know i know i can pull her....but should i? i don't want my friend pissed at me i'm don't want to steal his chick or nothing...but she gave me her number and all told me to call her sometime. It puts me in a big dilemma... need help what would you do?

 

[Morphiex]

talk to your friend and ask him how much he likes her and **** , if he says he isent that into her then tell him that she gave you her number and wanted you to call her ,,, then say ill trow away the number if u want ....
if he says yes throw it away if he says no keep it **** her and move on....

dont destroy a friendship over some punani...

 

[Bible_Belt]

agreed. And help your friend be less of an afc.

 

[Badmannaz]

thx 4da advice he is definatley AFC!!

i don't understand why women have to get in the middle all the time it's torture

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by Badmannaz
yeah so me and my friend have been chilling for awhile. he met this chick at the club and everyscince he's been trying to mess with her....they've went out plenty of times and every time i ask him "so what you do you make a move?" he always says "naw we're not ready for all that!!!


we get at a party and i finally meet this girl....she's a hb8 (7-face and 9 body) be having the personality i have i may come off flirtatious...yea well me and her talk a little and she's starting to open up to me....now she likes my friend but there not together or nothing so i don't know i know i can pull her....but should i? i don't want my friend pissed at me i'm don't want to steal his chick or nothing...but she gave me her number and all told me to call her sometime. It puts me in a big dilemma... need help what would you do?

This has nothing to do with you, or your friend. It has everything to do with her. You need to talk to your buddy. If he is a real friend, he will simply shrug it off, and give you a high five/his blessings. If he is an insecure worm, he will get upset that you are "moving in on his territory"....but if he aint hit it yet, it isnt really his, she is fair game, baby!

 

[backbreaker]

i've been in situtations like that.


Here is the thing... You know he doesn't have a chance in hell, she knows he doesn't have a chance in hell, but he is your friend, and you have to let him figure that out for himself, or else he will always resent you for "taking his girl"

Wait until she has given him the LJBF's or until she has stopped talking to him. I don't see either or taking too much longer, probably any day now.

This girl I was talking to... well.. ****ing, was in a similar situtation. She was dating this guy, who she liked but didn't LIKE. They were dating for I think 3 weeks, and he introduced her to his friends, who she thought one was sooooooo cute. And he thought the same.

The same day she met him, the guys friend was already ****blocking his best friend over a girl he had just met an hour ago. He was trying to kiss her, take her away from his best friend.

They eventually broke up, but not becuase of him.

She eventually lost all respect for him and stopped answering the phone when he called..

She told me "No REAL man would ever steal a girl from his best friend, no matter how much he likes her"


However, if the guy was smart enough to let things play out, because he was a rebound guy after all, she would have probably broken up with him anyway for him.

 

[GropeDope]

A real friend doesn't do sh!t like this even when he damn well knows he can. But the questions you have to ask yourself are: How tight are you? Do you actually value your friendship with him? Or is it insignificant enough for you to not care about destroying it just for one ho even though YOU KNOW you'll be getting plenty more pvssy where that came from?

Again I don't know how tight you two are, but if you actually are close friends you should stay away from her altogether. Even if he never f*cks her. He'll always resent you f*cking "his catch" and it will definitely damage if not destroy your friendship.

But forget about it from a friend perspective for a second. Think of it this way: Does a real DJ need to take HBs that his friends are pursuing or can he find his own?

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Bros before ho-es? Fuc-k that. You've heard the saying in poker, "The nicest man at the table is the worst card player."? The same exact thing goes for dating. No matter what you do, chances are in this game of love you're going to step on someone else's shoes. I have thrown away several EASY chances with women just because I didn't want to mess up some other guy's relationship (or potential relationship) with the girl. These girls were NOT at all chronic cheaters or anything like that. They were merely women. You know how they say women, like monkeys, swing from one tree (man) to another, only letting go of one branch after they were sure they had a firm grasp on another....I was in each case, figuratively speaking, the next branch, but I threw it all away for the sake of others. One of the guys was/is a friend of mine (not close), and he doesn't give a fu-ck about his relationship, but I STILL ignored his girlfriend's obvious advances on me, even though I wanted her. Other guys I spared I didn't even KNOW. Talk about being too nice. That was in highschool where I had to see the other guys a lot..... but now that I am in college, NEVER AGAIN.

My advice: Go for what you want, and do justice to yourself. God knows how many guys would screw you out of a hookup with a girl without even blinking an eye. I just want to say that I am completely against cheating and TRYING to break up happy relationships, but when it comes to dating, you gotta run it like a business.

In your case, you have just as much right to that girl as your friend does. I am not the type that forms especially close (tight) friendships, so I don't know exactly how you feel about this, but if it were me, I would simply let the girl decide. You can get new friends, but if this girl truly is worth it, you won't find another girl like her ever again. haha

 

[Distant Light]

I hate this situation. I never go for girls my boys are going for or i suspect they are. I have missed many chances with girls because of this. Wait then again almost every girl in my social circle i do not even attempt to escalate because i suspect some my friends trying to get with them.

 

[AmIAFC]

To me, it depends on what my friend is trying to do with the girl.

If he's trying to establish something concrete and he talks about her all day like he's found "the one," then I wouldn't venture into that area. However, if he perceives her as a slvt and only wants to hit it once (maybe a few times), then I'll throw some game at her.

My friends and I have an understanding when it comes to the latter. It's free game for anyone.