"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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take your stuff and go. This will make her panic, and if not it will show you have some balls... either way you can't lose.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zzeitgeist said:
take your stuff and go. This will make her panic, and if not it will show you have some balls... either way you can't lose.
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what about the dogs,bank accounts, ect.
 
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Brutas said:
so what are you guys saying. dont do anything? cause right now we are not talking. She called yesterday morning from work i didnt answer and thats the last attempt at communication. should i take my stuff and leave the keys? or just wait it out for a while? I dont want to call her.
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Just tell her you want a break. Be civil and nice about it. Tell her you both need to sit down and sort out the bank details and sort out who keeps/minds the dogs etc.

Don't be arguing like 2 little school kids. Be a man and take control of the situation.

You've nothing to loose at this point. Take the break and see if YOU WANT HER back. If nothing happens then you'll eventually accept it and it'll be like a weight off your shoulders and she'll respect you more too.
 
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A big part of the problem is how much you sweat her. Stop living your life through her actions. Do whats right for you.
 
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