"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Broke up with my GF

LegendBoy

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It had only been like 2months. But i liked her so much. Because we spent so much time together. Yes I seem afc and all that.. But she was 16 I was 18 and she has reallly strict parents they found out everything that we hung out at nights and all that.. She got in lots of trouble and now is never allowed to see me or go out for a period of time ..

Her dad wanted 2 know where I lived etc. Honest truth is she likes me a lot ... Like a lot and i like her a lot. But I guess its ended..

Im fairly down as we talked on phone about this all and its done...

What eats me up is that we both liked each other so much and it wasn't even in our control.

**** this...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Muppet

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It worse when you break up for dumb reasons and both still like eachother, maybe in time her dad will let her see you.
 

theunflushables

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ahhh...star crossed lovers. Do you like her enough that you'd go up to her dad and kick him the nuts if he didn't let you see her?

Think on that.
 

LegendBoy

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This situation pisses me off. Because its not a situation where we dont like each other.. We like each other a lot. It just she not going to be allowed out and stuff and ye..

Dunno what can i do?
 
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