"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Broke up with my GF

LegendBoy

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It had only been like 2months. But i liked her so much. Because we spent so much time together. Yes I seem afc and all that.. But she was 16 I was 18 and she has reallly strict parents they found out everything that we hung out at nights and all that.. She got in lots of trouble and now is never allowed to see me or go out for a period of time ..

Her dad wanted 2 know where I lived etc. Honest truth is she likes me a lot ... Like a lot and i like her a lot. But I guess its ended..

Im fairly down as we talked on phone about this all and its done...

What eats me up is that we both liked each other so much and it wasn't even in our control.

**** this...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Muppet

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It worse when you break up for dumb reasons and both still like eachother, maybe in time her dad will let her see you.
 

theunflushables

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ahhh...star crossed lovers. Do you like her enough that you'd go up to her dad and kick him the nuts if he didn't let you see her?

Think on that.
 

LegendBoy

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This situation pisses me off. Because its not a situation where we dont like each other.. We like each other a lot. It just she not going to be allowed out and stuff and ye..

Dunno what can i do?
 
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