"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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broke up w/ gf but I feel pretty good

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mongoose01

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i broke up with my gf not too long ago. we've been thru for awhile (check out my prior gay posts). but i feel pretty good. i look forward to meeting new women and new challenges with life and what ever else.

i look back on that relationship and (2 years) regret the bad advice i've taken from her. i'm thinking way more clear and enjoying myself right now. i've even started drawing and writing again.

dudes, if you've been dumped on, lie around and feel sorry for yourself. hell...drink and get drunk. but when your done, get your sh!t together and do what god intended you to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Get out there and do a boot camp. You may surprise yourself.
 
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Good for you. Embrace your freedom and learn from your mistakes. You have the power to pick and choose. Women can only wait to be approached.
 
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over.......

Hey,

When it is over, it is damnnn over.

Now get up off of your broken heart @ss and find another.

cave dweller
 
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