broke up on vacation

[gspshields2]

American women are so respectful and polite, courteous, educated, smart, charming, the list goes on. I love American women...

 

[Powerofmindset]

Update:

She text msged me last week to say that she heard me talking **** about her (untrue again) and will mail my stuff back. Also stating that I was angry and bitter about all of this. Once again I tried to defend myyself but this time she wasn't having it at all. Pretty sure she didn't even really read any of my text msgs I sent her. I still haven't gotten my package (she lives 5 blocks away) so my friend text her tonight and I guess they will be doing the transaction tomrrow.

For some reason this hurts like hell just knowing she wants nothing to do with me now over something that I never did. The little closure I felt completely left my body and I'm back to square one. I need some insight.

Her text msgs came across as she is breaking all ties with me after I already said we couldn't be friends and went no contact. Almost like she wanted the final say. I'm losing my mind.

 

[Tiguere]

the thing is you keep replying to her and falling for her little games. maintain radio silence. next time she texts come here and update the thread and follow the advice of the master DJs here.

block her msn facebook dont answer calls emails or texts.

RADIO.SILENCE....make her wonder what youre up to. and use this time to read the dj bible and catch up on the hobbies ypu left behond because that b!tch convinced you they were lame.

 

[Single4Life]

Here is the thing, no matter what you do right now, you aren't going to win with this girl. Not that you should want to win or even care, but you could save a puppy off the street and she will find something wrong with it. Been through this type of thing, and its a no win situation like I said.

I mean first, she breaks up with you WHILE in Vegas. Who does that? Vegas is supposed to be the funnest of the fun, not breakup city. She knew what she was doing. She went over to those guys and sat with them because she could give a flying F about you right now for whatever reason. Don't know why, but it is what it is. The thought of my present gf doing something like that is so alien, so off the damn wall that I would have to say it is damn near impossible. But we have a great relationship. Your gf thought yours sucked, and so she wanted out. And look how she has acted since. No trying to reconcile. Cold texts. Mean spirited to the extreme. These are not the actions of someone who has your best interests at heart.

You are going about this the right way. The ONLY way you win here (and by win I mean by keeping your self respect) is to keep doing what you are doing. Don't email. Don't text. Don't call. Don't beg. Don't plead. Don't yell. Don't cry. Just walk away with your head held high and don't say a nasty thing about her to anyone. She knows what she did was wrong. Now she wants you to justify her decision by acting like a d1ck. Don't do it.

Walk away. This is NOT the girl for you, and someday when you are with someone who is, you will look back at all this and laugh.

Heh heh heh.

I don't want to rain on your saturday barbeque, but it seems to me like you think a little too highly of your GF. Trust me. She's capable of doing **** you never think she would.

I hope that day never comes to you, but if it does, I am going to be sad if you act surprised and shocked. Best wishes

 

[Single4Life]

To the OP :

Your ex has mental issues. Breaking up with someone in that fashion, on a vacation, and then acting like a cold hearted bi*** afterwards, yeah.

She's crazy. Move on.