broke up but is still friends

[addidasss]

I broke up with a gal. then we still hang out with the same group of friends every once awhile. she's still acts friendly to me just like anyone of our friends.

She doesn't call me and I don't call her. I still like her. What do i do? i asked her once to be back with me, she said no and she already moved on. But when she hangs out among our group of friends, she never brings her new guy friend.

I know all dj here say that you should not get back with your X. I still want her because of good sex and the fun. Sometimes, it seems like she likes me again. What kind of signs or signals should I look for to see if she may be interested in me?

 

[( . )( . )]

I'll tell you the signs after you go fvck 10 other women.

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[BrotherAP]

First off, asking her to date you again is a bit sudden - there's no reason to rush back into an exclusive relationship. Even better, focus on just getting her alone with you without any pressure for relationships etc.

Don't bother looking for signs that she's interested. Reading women is way too complcated a business to truly be worth your time, and it's unnescessary. Just invite her to hang out with you sometime - you and her alone - adn from there just treat it like you were already dating. Hold her hand, etc - then kiss her and go on from there.

The key here is detachment. If she's unsure about you, then any sign that you will get too clingy could send her packing. Don't ask her if she likes you, where she sees this going, or any of that nonsense - she'll do that if she wants it bad enough.


- BrotherAp

 

[Desdinova]

I'll tell you the signs after you go fvck 10 other women.

Bravo!
Hell, after fvcking 10 other women, you won't even need to know the signs. She'll want your stud ass after that.

 

[hungry_american]

how long where you guys even together?

 

[addidasss]

we were friends first about one month and at that time we hung out with other friends as well. for that one month, but never alone. then i gone out with her alone twice in a period of about two weeks. then we become bf/gf for about 3 months. what i liked best was sex, dancing with her. she loves to sing and has beautiful voice that i love. for that reason, i still want her back.

 

[J.R.G.G]

adidasss you need to realize that you can have great sex with other girls, she's not the only chick with a pusy and a mouth, also most girls dance just like your ex used to, and if its her voice that you miss the most then get into a choir class or something, i can assure you that if you try you can get a good decent singing girl with all of the avobe things that you like.

 

[addidasss]

thanks for all the comments, but im not going to take her off my list. she's the best girl i've ever kissed. nice warm juicy lips with warm sensation, uncomparable to others. pvssy, hers is the greatest. and first girl's vagina i've ever encounter that does not stink when she's horny. i haven't tasted it. wouldn't do that kind of stuff, but i would imagine it tastes like vanilla ice cream. the way she touches me, i'd say i had the best from her than any other girls.

please don't tell me to get her off my list. and do tell me some tips to get her back. not in the afc ways of course, because i've been an afc to her and it didn't work las mentioned by djs. I've toughened myself and stand to my ground. no more praising her on the pedestal. however, i want whatever tips to increase my chance of her attracting to me without making me look like i want her. attract flies without chasing after flies.

thanks all for sharing comments.

at same time i'm also enjoying other ladies. i realize that all the women i'm dating now, no one is like her. while i'm dating and making out with other women, i'm missing her. it's kind of strange.

 

[J.R.G.G]

its not strange, its one-itis and its very common. You say that youre not putting her in a pedestal, but you are. Being stuborn and thinking that she is the only girl that is gonna make you feel good is not the way to go. Come on man, this girl already told you that she has moved on, that she is seeing someone else, its very probable that she is su*cking his d!ck to with those juicy lips that you describe.

You already told her that you wanted her back, she declined your offer, so why humiliate more? Why continue with that AFC behavior?

Iam very blunt and if i offend iam sorry bro, but you gotta realize that youre not gonna get the AFC advice that you want from DJ's, cause thats what youre asking for, youre asking DJ's to tell you how to do AFC stuff and that advice youre only gonna get it by AFC's only.

 

[MacAvoy]

Originally posted by addidasss
thanks for all the comments, but im not going to take her off my list. she's the best girl i've ever kissed.

Blah blah blah, or should I say AFC AFC AFC.

Or as JRGG repeatedly said, oneitis. We've all done this when we first come here, wanting to use DJ techniques to get that last one back. Do yourself a favour and don't waste months trying to get this one back, forget her and move one.

The one thing newbies don't understand is that you have to actually move on if you want any chance of anything w/ the girl again except friends.

Your choice, take our advice or go to LJBF's zone.

ps this should be somewhere where we can paste it to every post like this.

 

[flexion_]

One-itis - classic case.
AFC behaviour - classic case.

Read DJ bible.

 

[spider_007]

what's wrong about wanting her back


it's not like the guy is gona merry her. he is having fun, nailing gurls, and it just happens this perticular "flavour" is puirty damn good.

If he was saying "oh i love her, i can't live with out her" then i'd be worried. What he is saying is "what i liked best was sex, dancing with her."

 

[thejackofalltrades]

Why'd you break up with her if she was so incredibly different from every other girl out there?

 

[pimpdatass]

Maybe this is obvious but you need to bang her. Maybe go out, get her a bit drunk ,and get her horny. My experience with ex's is you can manage to **** them after you break up, they will want you back. Chemical release or something, I dunno what it is.

I remember I was chilling with an ex for a while but we didnt play around. She didnt call much...one night we ended up ****ing. Next 5 days she was calling wanting to hang out again.

 

[addidasss]

spider_007 and pimpdatass, you're both right on. when i feel horny, i miss this x gf than the girls i'm with. it's strange. It's all about fun and im not crazy about her. i want her because the sex is best. another thing i like about her is when we have sex she doesn't make crazy loud moan like other girls i've done with. she's all wet, and does not stink when she's wet, and she barely makes soft noise while I fyk her. i love this. i guess it's the etiquette that i also like.

macavoy, i do have other girls. i think she knows about this too.

i don't know. should i continue hanging out with my group of friends or should i just find a new group of friends, so she doesn't have to see me. maybe this way she can miss me. yes, some of you call me afc, but i can't help it. when sex is good, you still want more good sex even after you break up. so far no other girls can match her yet in this sex department.

 

[addidasss]

does this ever happened to any of you guys?

and if she comes close to you and you kino her, will that increase your chance of landing sex with her again?

 

[MightyMate]

Ask Yoursel a question. Are You really that lame that You can find just 1 girl in life to have good secx and fun? If You are then feel free to get back.

 

[J.R.G.G]

mightymate is right, how can you think shes the only one thats good in bed and smell nice? are the other girls you slept with hookers?

Or do you live in a town where women dont shower?
Stop using excuses to deny one-itis. And start hooking up with chicks that shower regularly.

 

[addidasss]

Haha! you guys. I meant her ***** doesn't smell gross like other girls i've been with. other ones, everytime i make them horny, i scent this smelly smell. i guess she is the exception.

you guys don't understand. i don't say i'm heart broken of her. i'm having sex with other girls. it's just i've had the greatest sex with her.

hope i'll meet someone someday that will be as enjoyable as her, then i'll forget her totally.

in essence, i want to maker her my FB.