Broke up after almost 2 years

[Slowhandluke]

BS, if the woman has red flags that are deal breakers and the guy ignored them, its his fault, if the woman was okay, and the guy put her on a pedestal, getting needy, complacent and all those thing I listed still his fault. I've done it and got the tshirt.

That's why there has to be a vetting process before commiting and dating multiple women to know with which one "things click" but guys has to few options that they wanna turn a ho3 into a housewife, or they commit to the very first women who likes them. Been there, done that, came for more and got the tshirt.

There's a theory going arround that says you shouldn't marry any woman red flag or not.

You can't hold "frame" forever. There will be misfortunes. Will your girl that you vetted still be arround when that happens? Who knows?

The Drunkard's Walk - Wikipedia

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At the end of the day, you only have the ability to control yourself. Everything else is just a "best guess" scenario; everyone hopes for the best.

 

[Pedrito0906]

There's a theory going arround that says you shouldn't marry any woman red flag or not.

You can't hold "frame" forever. There will be misfortunes. Will your girl that you vetted still be arround when that happens? Who knows?

The Drunkard's Walk - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

At the end of the day, you only have the ability to control yourself. Everything else is just a "best guess" scenario; everyone hopes for the best.

You're right, but what about children? What's the purpose if its not to have children? You'll eventually get bored of having everything, money, women, material things, then after that what's next?

 

[Slowhandluke]

You're right, but what about children? What's the purpose if its not to have children? You'll eventually get bored of having everything, money, women, material things, then after that what's next?

Buddhism says it's nirvana. Christianity says its to "go to heaven".. Islam its virgins.. atheists leans to nihilism... etc... etc...

Pick your poison

 

[Gamisch]

You're right, but what about children? What's the purpose if its not to have children? You'll eventually get bored of having everything, money, women, material things, then after that what's next?

Great question. The purpose that's left is to "have fun". That's why a lotta men complain nowadays, because relationships being about "just having fun " is an outcome of a feminized Society.

On the other hand , men who can adjust will obvisouly profit the most.

Dont forget the famous numbers: for centuries 40% of men reproduced vs 80% of women . Now everybody's getting older , less wars and overall dangers, so the other 60% of men start to question their place in this world.

Nature is cruel.