jophil28
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Usually I am a believer in conserving my ammo, but that text cries out for a smartazz reply.DangNammit said:
How about," I feel that moving on is a few months overdue.."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Broke up 4 days ago... I think
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How about," I feel that moving on is a few months overdue.."
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr.Positive
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A smartazz text would be funny. How about 'confusing' her with another gal....jophil28 said:
"move on? what about the great sex we had last night?" lmao, just imply that you've completely forgotten her already.
jophil28
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Ha ha, very clever - you have a mean streak in you, Mr P .Mr.Positive said:A smartazz text would be funny. How about 'confusing' her with another gal....
"move on? what about the great sex we had last night?" lmao, just imply that you've completely forgotten her already.
DangNammit
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Thanks guys... yeah I had a few potential zingers, but I want her to know that she's not even worth those. Keepin my mouth shut and moving on. No major loss on my part. Her behavior was so foul that she effectively erased any positive feelings I did have for her fraud a55.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Just got a text: "Trying to find out about the status of our relationship. Please call."
I feel like a d1ck not telling her to buzz off - even though, I don't have any desire to address this. I'm waffling... Why should I say 5hit to her after how she treated me... where was her courtesy? Right? This is hard for me to not just tell her its done...
I feel like a d1ck not telling her to buzz off - even though, I don't have any desire to address this. I'm waffling... Why should I say 5hit to her after how she treated me... where was her courtesy? Right? This is hard for me to not just tell her its done...
jophil28
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This woman is not going to take a hint- women rarely just fade into the shadows and leave you conveniently single again.DangNammit said:
Just call her (not text) and say." This relationship is not what I want and I don't want to continue seeing you. Goodluck, bye " and HANG UP before she drags you into a 4 hour crying fest during which she would say numerous dingbat things that popped into her head, and she would also make several promises that she will not keep. Bt then you will start to weaken and agree to see her Friday night for a fuk marathon during which she will know for sure that her pvssy rules... and so it goes around and around.
Dang, when it's done, it's done.
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Kailex
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The funny thing is that she KNOWS the relationship is over, she just wants confirmation. More than confirmation, the wants official PERMISSION to move onto the next guy, which I'm sure she already has set up and waiting in the wings.
If you believe you can keep it short and sweet, like Jophil has stated, then do just that.
If you feel there is absolutely no need for it, then don't.
But do NOT get dragged into an endless discussion about the relationship. The longer you spend on that phone, the more advantages she begins to have over you.
I always say that closure is a fallacy and it's just a ploy disguised as "one last chance". So be weary of what you do next.
If you believe you can keep it short and sweet, like Jophil has stated, then do just that.
If you feel there is absolutely no need for it, then don't.
But do NOT get dragged into an endless discussion about the relationship. The longer you spend on that phone, the more advantages she begins to have over you.
I always say that closure is a fallacy and it's just a ploy disguised as "one last chance". So be weary of what you do next.
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That's exactly how I was feeling... like she requires my nod to move on - weird.Kailex said:
I'm not so sure about another guy, kinda doubt it, but who knows. Good advice thanks guys... I'll go that route (short call) when I feel like it - maybe this weekend. Thanks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jophil28
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If you do call her and formally breakup with her, you need to do a ' cast in steel deal' with yourself not to continue the convo after you have said what you want to say. Speak and Click.DangNammit said:
Her last text was her way of asking " Are we done ?"
AS Kailex said she probably is prepared for "the end" but is waiting for you to formally say so.
I believe that holding "the frame" in a relationship should extend right down to the wire.
Finish it on YOUR terms not her's .
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
When I'm done with something (or someone), I mean I'm DONE.
No more talking, no explanations, no excuses or equivocations.
And no feelings of anger or slander towards the person either; I keep moving forward.
Let these women save the drama, I haven't any care for it.
No more talking, no explanations, no excuses or equivocations.
And no feelings of anger or slander towards the person either; I keep moving forward.
Let these women save the drama, I haven't any care for it.