"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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British POF is worse than North American

gspshields2

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Recently I met this British HB on one of my drunken adventures.

She exclaimed to me "You are so cool, I love (North Americans), you would be the coolest
guy in England".

I'm thinking to myself "bull****".

Well I wanted to test this theory to see if British HBs were different than NA HBs.

I am actually glad to be in North America, because British girls are far less open to going out with an Asian guy.

North America is only the #2nd worst place to be for dating for Asian guys, with England being the #1 worst.

I spammed UK pof for days, and not even 1 number..

Amaazing.

Not even from the HB0-3s.

British POF is much worse than North America,

just a heads up.

British HBs are much much uglier than their North American counterparts as well.

I guess there are places worse than North America, and that place is called England.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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perseverance

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I like the way people use their race as a reason for their lack of success, talk about self-pity of the highest order. Right now I'm playing the smallest violin in the world for you.

Britain has the highest amount of interracial relationships in the world, by 2020 mixed race people will make up the largest ethnic minority grouping in the country. Experts in the field of demographics have estimated that in less than one hundred years white people in the UK will be an ethnic minority.

If it's white women you're looking to date as most non-white men are (so it seems) then the UK is the place for you. Your average white woman in the UK loves dating men of ethnic minorities. I see white women with black men, mixed race men, Indian men, Chinese men, Japanese men, men from Iran, Saudi Arabia and so on...

Your problem is not your race, your problems are deeper than just racial issues.
 

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perseverance said:
I like the way people use their race as a reason for their lack of success, talk about self-pity of the highest order. Right now I'm playing the smallest violin in the world for you.

Britain has the highest amount of interracial relationships in the world, by 2020 mixed race people will make up the largest ethnic minority grouping in the country. Experts in the field of demographics have estimated that in less than one hundred years white people in the UK will be an ethnic minority.

If it's white women you're looking to date as most non-white men are (so it seems) then the UK is the place for you. Your average white woman in the UK loves dating men of ethnic minorities. I see white women with black men, mixed race men, Indian men, Chinese men, Japanese men, men from Iran, Saudi Arabia and so on...

Your problem is not your race, your problems are deeper than just racial issues.

Where do you see White Women in the UK with Asian men (east asian , not brown). You don't see it happening. That is total b.s. you are spewing. I noticed most of these people who say don't blame your race are usually part of the privileged race.

I have no desire to date British women since i don't live in the UK.

Just bringing up a general observation that the UK less of an open place than North America and much less tolerant of Asians, and the HBS are MUCH MUCH HARDER TO GET, FOR ANYONE, and the quality sucks.

Thats it!
 
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gspshields2 said:
I have no desire to date British women since i don't live in the UK.
You're talking absolute blue waffle my friend. You have no idea what you're on about. You're making sweeping generalisations about a country you do not live in based on an experience you have had on a British based dating site. You have no desire to date British women, yet you went to all this effort to bring about this topic on SoSuave. You either have a few screws loose up stairs or you have too much free time on your hands.

I guess you'd have a better time with women and life in general if you didn't suffer from racial insecurity. I maybe white, but I'm a skinny, short white guy. I weigh around 63kg and I'm 5'5-5'6 in height. And I am not privileged in anyway, I'm not a hit with the ladies, but unlike you I don't make up silly excuses for my short-comings in life, nor do I wallow in self-pity.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ScottMustaine said:
Cry more please.

Matt Heafy from Trivium is half Japanese half American guy. He never had problem attracting girls.

Why ? Because he was so much focused on other things. Such as... MAKING HIMSELF INTO THE ****ING WORLD.

So at the age of 18 he made an album called Ascendancy. Became a hit.

I'm sorry, but I feel like you don't have a life. You just put too much **** about girls. Go focus on other things. It will help you, a lot.


http://www.metalsucks.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Matt-Heafy-Future-Blues.jpg


One of my girfriends said he looks like a monkey. But who gives a ****, he's banging girls, has a happy life.


And that's the point. Get a happy life, you'll attract women like flies.
I have never heard of Mr Heafy, however I take it he is a success in the music industry = he will get laid almost by default! not eht bold comment from your girlFRIEND. so the guy is butt ugly and get laid loads...because of hsi status, like old wrinkly hugh heffner, old wrinkly Bernie ecclestone from Formula 1. can we all attain these things? f ccuk no, even you, in your young years have had a depressed period of 4 years, what the f ccuck have you been doing in all that time?
 

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Some harsh responses! I did observe that some cultures will not let you in no matter what. Sure, the girl can break out of it if she WANTS to, but if not, she will not give up a number or respond or show attraction because she'd be in deep $hit with the family. Just an observance of mine. However, be proud of your race/ethnicity, run with it, and forget about that online crap. Face to face is the way to gain better experience. And yes, in the meantime, chill, and work on improving yourself in all areas. Strong mind is a solid life.
 

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'British HBs are much uglier than their North American counterparts'

Compete and utter nonsense
 

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I made a profile on POF to see how females get treated. So, I dressed up in a wig and a nice miniskirt and took pics and posted them.


And I got SO MANY emails. It's just not fair. Women get bombarded with letters from hot guys and we have to scrape for UGs and pigs.

That's it!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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