"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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British accent

LuisGarcia10

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Random question here!
I'm English and going to Orlando for a holiday next week! Heard lots of stereotypes that American girls love the British accent! Just wondered how true that was?!
I'm 24 years old, I'd consider mused quite good looking (get my arse pinched by girls in nightclubs Quite a lot if that means anything!) and I'm in pretty good shape!
Considering arranging some meet ups via POF before I go!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Masculinity

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Your accent is a card in the whole deck. You can have a good hand, but if you

don't know how to play it you will lose.
 
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Girls like the British accent here.

But if girls are pinching your ass and you don't really know why, you may have some challenges closing the deal.
 

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People like accents everywhere, my friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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People like accents everywhere, my friend.
Too true, I remember serving this American girl on the cigarette counter when I used to work for a supermarket and she knocked me for six with her how she looked and then her accent. Thankfully there was a counter in front of me, because I had a raging hard on.
 

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I think it's a common stereotype in America too haha.

Not just british accent's but most foreign accent's are considered exotic around these parts (It is in Washington state, not sure about Florida haha). But an accent alone isn't gonna get you girls down here, just about everything else written on this site pretty much applies regardless.

But honestly, I've always wanted to test the stereotype that Japanese or Aussie girls go crazy for American guys! So I get where you are coming from haha
 

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Im Aussie and going to America next year for 12 months so we'll see.

I had mates go over for about 6 weeks and they said it definitely makes it easier to open them and start a conversation, sort of disarms then in a way. Other then that its up to you, its not like their gunna blow u then and there because u speak a little differently. In saying that one of them fvcked 3 chicks and over here the only time he gets his knob wet is outside pissing in the rain.
 

Mike32ct

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Accents are definitely an advantage. It doesn't mean women will necessarily throw themselves at you, but it's an edge.

The English and Aussie accents are generally very well received in the US.

But the REAL power behind being foreign is you have a LOT to talk about. She'll be naturally curious about what it's like where you live and vice versa.

I love accents myself. I would totally sleep with a less attractive chick if she had a cute accent.
 
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