Bringing up the topic of SEX

[Black Dog]

I really haven't found many threads on this!! The ones I've seen are pretty vague, and they all ALWAYS mention how delving into smexy talk is difficult haha. People tend to say if you're confident the subject of sexual relations comes naturally, and calmly.

I'm naturally good with words and clever with the things I say to a girl, so I can get away with bending some stuff into innuendos. My problem is that I'm introverted and don't instinctively bring up the topic of a sex position of a girl doing the splits or something lol.

All the articles I've read on this subject (they are pretty rare) state one universal fact: the transition isn't easy. In the end from the information I've digged up, I've concluded that:

1. You need to get her comfortable
2. Kino
3. Run regular game like a pro

All this will lead to sweet, juicy responses from her to the point where she won't stop talking. I just need to know how to harness this, dangerous power...of sex-talking lol.



So yea DJs, care to shed some light on how to do this confidently, and cleverly?

 

[S0LID]

HELLO STRANGER WHAT DID YOU THINK OF TWO GIRLS ONE CUP?

I say go for it, yeah!

 

[thedoc]

What's worked for me is using our surroundings to make a joke about her fantasies.

Ex- Convo is going and she says something about sex.
HB: blah blah blah sex blah
You: Hey, what's your deepest darkest fantasy? (if in a classroom. I bet you'd LOVE to play teacher/student, wear one of those perky skirts)


Something like that.


You mentioned diving in from fruit to sex, and it's a little ironic I had a similar situation yesterday. Long story short, we went from the topic of my cinnamon raisin bagel to her sex fantasies.


I don't remember what the transition was. I THINK, what happened was there was a long eye contact, and I said "what the hell are you staring at, I know it's not my bagel."
Then something about sexy eyes and BAM, there's the transition.




I'm just posting from personal experience and what's worked for me. Maybe you have a different personality/image than me and it wouldn't work. You should know, it's possible though.

 

[Dubh]

its actually real easy using ur 123 method because sex is everywhere you look

 

[speedwheel]

Use the moment where you catch her looking into your eyes. The convo kinda hits a slow/down spot and the 2 of you are kinda just looking into each others eyes or you simply just have a moment where you both are looking at each other. Then you pull out the question: "So what are you thinking about?" with a cute little smirk on your face. She'll either

1. Smile and act a little shy
2. Give you some honest answer, like by saying "you" or some other random response about something in her life.
3. Give you a flirty response.

With #1, you can keep the little smile/smirk on your face and playfully say something like "uh huh, not wanting to admit it...I see. I'm thinking I know though." She'll keep up the shy/smiling bit and say something kinda flirty like "oh yeah? What is it then?" Bingo, doors open for whatever floats your boat.

With #2, you kind of have to work with this one. Build off of whatever her response is. If she replies that she's thinking about you, then say something like "oh really? What about me?" with a little smile/smirk and keep escalating. If she says something else, then you have to come up with a witty response on the spot or find something else to escalate from.

With #3, the door is open for you. She could respond with something sexual here or something flirty with a hint of sexuality. Your response to her should contain something sexual.


With me, the little smile/smirk thing I do already hints that this is a sexual question...I can just give this look that pushes the question/conversation towards sex. Works for me, dunno about you.