CaptainSaveAh0
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 31, 2013
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I am noticing with a lot of guys coming on here and being disappointed in their results and taking game so seriously. For example they go out one night and get zero results and go home and think about the rest of the weekend and why they had failed. This kind of negative results driven mindset really effects your game and will effect your results dramatically.
Going out and meeting women should be fun and exciting. I understand guys with low success will have a tough time thinking like this but it can be done because I have done it myself. I found that being myself and having a good time is a much better method of getting girls than memorizing PUA methods and robotically acting them out. I used to be the guy that went out and stood around not doing much to becoming the guy that is having a good time and fun to be around.
So my message is to lighten up and go out for the purpose of having fun and be yourself. Do not care so much about results, these days when I get rejected I laugh it off instead of going home and thinking about it for days about why I got rejected. I know there could be hundreds of reasons for why I got rejected and most of them will probably not be my fault. I understand that this will not apply to everyone because everyone has different personalities but lightening up your mood and not caring about results can be done by everyone.
I think that is one of the crucial first steps of becoming a DJ and after you can achieve that you will truly begin your quest for in mastering the art of seduction and pick up.
Going out and meeting women should be fun and exciting. I understand guys with low success will have a tough time thinking like this but it can be done because I have done it myself. I found that being myself and having a good time is a much better method of getting girls than memorizing PUA methods and robotically acting them out. I used to be the guy that went out and stood around not doing much to becoming the guy that is having a good time and fun to be around.
So my message is to lighten up and go out for the purpose of having fun and be yourself. Do not care so much about results, these days when I get rejected I laugh it off instead of going home and thinking about it for days about why I got rejected. I know there could be hundreds of reasons for why I got rejected and most of them will probably not be my fault. I understand that this will not apply to everyone because everyone has different personalities but lightening up your mood and not caring about results can be done by everyone.
I think that is one of the crucial first steps of becoming a DJ and after you can achieve that you will truly begin your quest for in mastering the art of seduction and pick up.