"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright so I'm doing a summer semester at college this year and I have Health Psychology tomorrow at 11am with this HB8. This class has been going now for about two and a half weeks and I had been looking for a way to strike up a conversation with this girl since day 1. Likewise since day one we I have been getting some major slight turn Eye Contact (she sits way in front and to the left of me) since day 1. So I'm in one of the computer labs last thursday checking my e-mail when she walks in. Opportunity knocks. I log off and go take a seat right next to her and start with how I didnt' catch her name on the first day (she mumbled it...) for there we start chatting about the Same old boring crap about college. It went well (I think) lasted for about 15 minutes then she had to get to another class. So I need to "bring it" tomorrow and mack this chick. I'm looking for some good suggestions. Basically the class is 2 and half hours long with a 10 minute break in the middle. I know what you're thinking, why haven't I used this opportunity to make moves yet...she's one of those chicks who should have her cell phone duct taped to head. Any free time..."can you hear me now." Damn that **** is annoying. My hope is now that I've made a move she'll refrain from it. Of course I still haven't scoped whether she has a bf or not (my friend in the class seems to think so). Guidance needed.
 

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darth yoda

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Several options are available to you...

- Get her number/email for "school" purposes

- Tell her you think she is interesting and would like to get to know her better

- Do nothing and regret the summer session you had when you passed up a good opportunity...

It's really all about how you do it...not neccesarily what "tactic" you use. Maybe you should have done this during your 15 minute conversation...you must strike while the iron is hot, young padawan. In college classes it's alot easier to go in, strike up a rapport, get her comfortable, get the number and then leave...you shouldn't talk to her for prolonged amounts of time without an objective. But I sense it is not too late. You remember what the bible says about conversating...don't you?
 

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grow some bollocks, ask for her PHONE number, then smile. If she asks why, say "cause I wanna phone you!".

She'll know why... she ain't stupid.
 

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I would talk to her again like you did last time, but not about school, make it about her. Then when you hear something she likes to do, ask her on a date to do that something. Easy. You will see if she is interested durring the coversation you have with her. Something that I do and have found it to work is from the bible... Imagine you fvcking her brains out in your head as you talk to her. I mean really think hard about it, to where you almost pop a wood... That will do the whole change of mind thing and give you a sexual attitude, and if she is at all attracted to you, it will make her more attracted because you will come off as sexy. If you havent read that part, I suggest you read it. It is the best thing you will ever learn about convo with a girl in my oppinion...
 

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First off thanks for all the advice guys I am definitely going to continue on the Carpe Diem path and apply this great advice.

Now what actually happened yesterday. I was planning on getting to class a little early (as I always do..plan that is) but as always I end up being just on time. So I come in sit down and our professor announces we are going to get out an hour early from class. So class ends and instead of hightailing out of there like she usually does she hangs around. So knowing that she has a gen. genetics class later I take the opportunity to come eat lunch with me and my friend ( and workout partner whom I obviously can't disinclude). So she tells me she has "sack" lunch but would be happy to. Sweet I think...all the positive signs are there. Well we go to the cafeteria building and 10 minutes into eating and conversing my friends straight up asks her do you have a bf, are you engaged? Lo and behold she is engaged. The engagement ring is so crappy (the diamonds like a 1/4 of a carat) and the band was white gold. Anyway she been with the same scrub since she was 15 (she's now 21) and made it sound like they got engaged because it was the next step (lame). Then of course she stops dropping all this bs about how "yeah it sucks when you meet someone you conect with but you can't do anything about (looking at me when she said it) and later "yeah i wish I could be single for a month." Needless to say hearing **** like that is like getting the parting gifts on a game show. And that's really the jist of the story...:down:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Caldus

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Forget it and move on to the next HB man. At least you tried. That's what counts for now. A lot of people just never end up trying and they go crazy wondering if they had a chance or not.
 

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whats up with all the HBs getting engaged at 21? y'know how you hear all that crap about women getting married later on in life? its not true: its the UGLY women that are getting married later on in life. Its probably more guys are starting to wake up out of their AFC-induced dreamworld and play the field a little more before they get married. And the HBs get married early because they find some AFC to be their cuckold and they marry him cause they know its going to be a sweet life.
 
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