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Bringing back misogyny and toxic masculinity

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This is just to serve as a reminder for all of you here on SS to keep your heads screwed on straight. No woman is worth your self-respect and dignity. That comes before anything. Don’t take shit from anyone, especially not a woman. There ain’t no way I’m gonna be told how to be a man by a woman. Most women nowadays don’t even know how to be a woman, you think they know the first thing about being a man?

So yeah, don’t listen to them. They’re all idiots when it comes to this stuff. Your mother included. Sorry not sorry.

Second, I think it’s about time we revise the Bro Code. Rule #1 has been, and always will be bros before hoes. But unfortunately nowadays, dudes are snakes. They’ll sell their souls for pussy. It’s not completely their fault, the rise of feminist single moms who constantly make bad choices due to a lack of male leadership coupled with the “sit down, shut up, and go watch Disney channel” attitude they all have towards their sons has only gotten worse over the years. Not to mention, most fathers are cucks anyway. But we can’t ignore the issue at hand. The majority men nowadays are white knight simps with testicles the size of ovaries. They’ll throw you under the bus and cut their own balls off just for the sake of being a “good boy”. Until these soyboys get back to their masculine roots (and I don’t think they will anytime soon), we’re gonna have to adapt.

From this point forward, we are replacing Bro Code Rule #1 with: once a slut, always a slut. And I think this goes without saying.

Now, this has been the de facto golden rule for some time now, but some dudes don’t seem to get that. You can bang these broads as much as you want, but never put a ring on it. Once a slut, always a slut. You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. She belongs to the streets. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again—virgin or boot. No hymen, no diamond.

Oh yeah, and those born-again virgins? Yeah, that’s just alpha fux, beta bux. For those of you newbies who don’t know what that is, it’s basically a reference to the age-old adage of “nice guys finish last”, where Amy is out there getting raw-dog railed by Ryan the quarterback while you’re just left sitting on the sidelines waiting for sloppy seconds. After she’s all used up and no longer as hot as she once was, she’s finally ready to settle down with a ‘nice guy’.

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Lol.

That’s why chicks always say:
“Yeah we like the bad boy when we’re young, but don’t worry, because in the end, nice guys win”.

Hence why nice guys finish last.

The third thing I want to bring attention to is, be a man. No crying. What you heard in first and second grade was right. Crying is for wusses, and only crybabies cry. You gotta toughen up, harden up. Always be strong. If you need to let loose a little bit and shed a couple tears every once in a while, fine. But don’t do it in front of anyone. Ever. As far others are concerned, you’re a super soldier. You work out, lift weights, smash pussy, work hard, make a lot of money, spend it on whatever you want, and most importantly, YOU DON’T GIVE A F*CK.

Alright, ‘nuff said. Step up your pimp game playas. It’s do or die now. Always has been really, you’re just now waking up.

Welcome to the Grind.
 

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This is true. I was a Christian simp back in 2014 who married my ex-wife who was a single mother with a child and a bunch of bad sexual experiences with her ex-bf, and I flipped out a number of times with her because, at the end of the day, she had no value system to honor a marriage vow at all at her core. But on the other hand, just because a girl is a virgin, doesn't mean she's a virgin in spirit. Suppose she decides to go on Tinder one day and start meeting men? These days as long as a girl has access to the internet dating apps, then nobody is really a virgin for very long.
 

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It's been proven by doctors that women are attracted to dark personality traits, including misogny and even psychopathy

They'll deny it, but who listens to a womans words instead of her actions?

Her ex "just happens" to be a scumbag. Her new guy "just happens" to be a bit selfish

The dark traits even include narcissism and manipulation. All secretly attractive

Toxic masculinity lol.
 

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It's been proven by doctors that women are attracted to dark personality traits, including misogny and even psychopathy

They'll deny it, but who listens to a womans words instead of her actions?

Her ex "just happens" to be a scumbag. Her new guy "just happens" to be a bit selfish

The dark traits even include narcissism and manipulation. All secretly attractive

Toxic masculinity lol.
Do you think the reason for this could be the high amount of female worshipping betas we have today? So many men kiss these womens asses and as a result those " selfish "men with dark traits are more attractive to women. This selfish men are rare in comparison to these betas even though they don't have the perfect mix between good and bad personality traits.
 

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Do you think the reason for this could be the high amount of female worshipping betas we have today? So many men kiss these womens asses and as a result those " selfish "men with dark traits are more attractive to women. This selfish men are rare in comparison to these betas even though they don't have the perfect mix between good and bad personality traits.
Mother nature has incredible foresight to have imbued in women's DNA the revulsion of the supposedly good guys.

Even as a man, I rather do business with a known gangster then a good guy, slimly buggers at like jelly fish.

If I had a daughter, I will most definitely teach and encourage her to go after the bad guys, those azzholes that many of you good guys hates.
 

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Do you think the reason for this could be the high amount of female worshipping betas we have today? So many men kiss these womens asses and as a result those " selfish "men with dark traits are more attractive to women. This selfish men are rare in comparison to these betas even though they don't have the perfect mix between good and bad personality traits.
No. It's to do with the survival of offspring

Selfish horrible men are more successful at reproduction than nice men. This is well documented

Ted Bundy fathered a child even when he was on death row
 

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No. It's to do with the survival of offspring

Selfish horrible men are more successful at reproduction than nice men. This is well documented

Ted Bundy fathered a child even when he was on death row
I didn't say nice guys are better. Selfish men are more successfull but they also aren't the perfect type of guy. Women would prefer an " a hole " over a nice guy. But what about someone who can perfectly Balance those 2 sides.
 

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I didn't say nice guys are better. Selfish men are more successfull but they also aren't the perfect type of guy. Women would prefer an " a hole " over a nice guy. But what about someone who can perfectly Balance those 2 sides.
A womans short-term mating strategy will always go for the azzhole. Especially if young and fertile. Which is why we have single moms and they don't mind. As long as the azzholes genes are being raised. Why? Because when that child is older it is more likely to reproduce again

When the woman ages she will attach herself to a less psychopathic partner. This is her long-term mating strategy. And it usually reproduces little to no offspring

Here is something interesting. The human female is the ONLY primate that does not reveal when she is in heat. The reason for this is thought to be so she can fully optimize her short-term mating strategy

If betas can't tell she is ovulating, they can't make sure her children are his. So she can just can just sneak off and instead breed with the azzhole. This is thought to have happened through out human history

Dark ain't it

But we d live in a civilized world now. And I agree. It's not a bad move to try and be both
 

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I personally don't look at women like sluts or think of them like sluts.
It's not a good mentality.
It's better to believe that women love sex, don't you agree?
This is how I see it - The longer she makes you wait for sex, the less she likes you.


Let's talk about Bro Code Rule#1 again
Once a slut, always a slut

I strongly disagree
Once a prude, always a prude!

You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife.
^^^^
This idea is old fashion now.

You know what I say?
You can't turn a prude into a pornstar.

This is just my personal motto, but overall great post!
 
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The third thing I want to bring attention to is, be a man. No crying. What you heard in first and second grade was right. Crying is for wusses, and only crybabies cry. You gotta toughen up, harden up. Always be strong. If you need to let loose a little bit and shed a couple tears every once in a while, fine. But don’t do it in front of anyone. Ever. As far others are concerned, you’re a super soldier. You work out, lift weights, smash pussy, work hard, make a lot of money, spend it on whatever you want, and most importantly, YOU DON’T GIVE A F*CK.
What sort of man lacks the balls to cry if that is appropriate? What you cry about and how often you cry is what determines whether you're an adult or a crybaby. If I'm with a woman and I suddenly get a call where I'm told someone close to me has died, then I damn well will cry on the spot and if she has a problem with that then she's a fvcking psychopath who can fvck off.

Sometimes, not holding back the tears gives a better impression to others than being a cold emotionless drone. I'm pretty sure the type of woman who would have an issue with a mans tears is also the type of woman who herself is repressed, emotional problems just waiting to boil over and explode in your face.

Want to see how good of a woman you've found? Cry in front of her, it will expose her femininity or lack thereof, anything other than support and consolation and she's garbage.

Having a past of repressed feelings and the exact ideals of toughening up, hardening up, not cry and being strong, I can tell that these so-called macho ideals are fvcking bullsh!t and downright harmful. I didn't even have success with women back then, I just kept spiralling down into depression and despair. That all ended when I finally let loose my emotions and started treating myself with compassion.

If you want to torture yourself, that's fine, but don't try to sell it off as good advice to others, because it most certainly is not.
 

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This is just to serve as a reminder for all of you here on SS to keep your heads screwed on straight. No woman is worth your self-respect and dignity. That comes before anything. Don’t take shit from anyone, especially not a woman. There ain’t no way I’m gonna be told how to be a man by a woman. Most women nowadays don’t even know how to be a woman, you think they know the first thing about being a man?

So yeah, don’t listen to them. They’re all idiots when it comes to this stuff. Your mother included. Sorry not sorry.

Second, I think it’s about time we revise the Bro Code. Rule #1 has been, and always will be bros before hoes. But unfortunately nowadays, dudes are snakes. They’ll sell their souls for pussy. It’s not completely their fault, the rise of feminist single moms who constantly make bad choices due to a lack of male leadership coupled with the “sit down, shut up, and go watch Disney channel” attitude they all have towards their sons has only gotten worse over the years. Not to mention, most fathers are cucks anyway. But we can’t ignore the issue at hand. The majority men nowadays are white knight simps with testicles the size of ovaries. They’ll throw you under the bus and cut their own balls off just for the sake of being a “good boy”. Until these soyboys get back to their masculine roots (and I don’t think they will anytime soon), we’re gonna have to adapt.

From this point forward, we are replacing Bro Code Rule #1 with: once a slut, always a slut. And I think this goes without saying.

Now, this has been the de facto golden rule for some time now, but some dudes don’t seem to get that. You can bang these broads as much as you want, but never put a ring on it. Once a slut, always a slut. You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. She belongs to the streets. I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again—virgin or boot. No hymen, no diamond.

Oh yeah, and those born-again virgins? Yeah, that’s just alpha fux, beta bux. For those of you newbies who don’t know what that is, it’s basically a reference to the age-old adage of “nice guys finish last”, where Amy is out there getting raw-dog railed by Ryan the quarterback while you’re just left sitting on the sidelines waiting for sloppy seconds. After she’s all used up and no longer as hot as she once was, she’s finally ready to settle down with a ‘nice guy’.

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Lol.

That’s why chicks always say:
“Yeah we like the bad boy when we’re young, but don’t worry, because in the end, nice guys win”.

Hence why nice guys finish last.

The third thing I want to bring attention to is, be a man. No crying. What you heard in first and second grade was right. Crying is for wusses, and only crybabies cry. You gotta toughen up, harden up. Always be strong. If you need to let loose a little bit and shed a couple tears every once in a while, fine. But don’t do it in front of anyone. Ever. As far others are concerned, you’re a super soldier. You work out, lift weights, smash pussy, work hard, make a lot of money, spend it on whatever you want, and most importantly, YOU DON’T GIVE A F*CK.

Alright, ‘nuff said. Step up your pimp game playas. It’s do or die now. Always has been really, you’re just now waking up.

Welcome to the Grind.
Good post. I think the guy in the pic is Kawhi Leonard. Finally, a celebrity DJ advocate!
 

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It's funny that we have to use words like misogyny and toxic masculinity to describe what's "normal" for us guys which obviously came from females to further their cause and narrative.
 

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lol my father once gave me some extra money with my paycheck after he found out I had been out clubbing and pulled a girl home.
He wanted me to go out more and pull more girls but told me don't let your mother find out about this.

He did warn me of the stds involved in it. my work mates and my father joked about it all the time.

I don't believe my father is ****ing any other women. And he ain't even ****ing my mother according to my mother. they sleep in seperate rooms. He spends all day working and investing and also gambling in the stock market. Investing and gambling in the market is different and he does both.
 

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I wouldn't call this misogyny though just having standards and dignity.
I only gave it that name because society would consider these things as ‘toxic masculinity’ and ‘misogyny’ lol
This is true. I was a Christian simp back in 2014 who married my ex-wife who was a single mother with a child and a bunch of bad sexual experiences with her ex-bf, and I flipped out a number of times with her because, at the end of the day, she had no value system to honor a marriage vow at all at her core. But on the other hand, just because a girl is a virgin, doesn't mean she's a virgin in spirit. Suppose she decides to go on Tinder one day and start meeting men? These days as long as a girl has access to the internet dating apps, then nobody is really a virgin for very long.
Which is why all girls are sluts deep down inside. But that’s a post for another time.
I personally don't look at women like sluts or think of them like sluts.
It's not a good mentality.
It's better to believe that women love sex, don't you agree?
This is how I see it - The longer she makes you wait for sex, the less she likes you.


Let's talk about Bro Code Rule#1 again
Once a slut, always a slut

I strongly disagree
Once a prude, always a prude!

You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife.
^^^^
This idea is old fashion now.

You know what I say?
You can't turn a prude into a pornstar.

This is just my personal motto, but overall great post!
I disagree bro. If she’s a prude, she’s just a prude for you. And I use the word “slut” because it’s true. Women don’t have gangbang and rape fantasies because they like sex, they have those fantasies because they like to be dominated. Like a slut. They all have that inner slut, you just gotta being it out of them. In regards to @corrector ’s post above, a virgin is less likely to stray when you release that inner slut, hence why virgins are better for long term. Simple stuff really, it’s just a reminder.
What sort of man lacks the balls to cry if that is appropriate?
Let me stop you right there chief—that statement you just made is societal brainwashing. You ask what sort of man lack the balls to cry? How about, what sort of man lacks the balls to keep it together? Vulnerability is weakness. So don’t cry. If we’re gonna go deeper and get to more advanced stuff, it’s not ‘vulnerability’ that is strong, but rather the confronting of one’s own internal fears and weakness and shortcomings. THAT (the latter) is strength, not ‘being vulnerable’. Being vulnerable is just one of those bull**** societal proverbs that sound good on paper but in reality have no real merit. It’s true that you’ll need to be vulnerable WITH YOURSELF when you confront these internal problems that you have, but that does not mean the act of confronting them is being vulnerable in and of itself. It merely has an aspect of being vulnerable. That does not mean that it’s essence is vulnerability though.

On top of that, you only do this with yourself. You never share these problems with anyone unless it’s to give a lesson i.e. “yeah I used to be that way but then I just saw that....” and that’s it. You don’t donit as a shoulder to cry on type of deal.
What you cry about and how often you cry is what determines whether you're an adult or a crybaby. If I'm with a woman and I suddenly get a call where I'm told someone close to me has died, then I damn well will cry on the spot and if she has a problem with that then she's a fvcking psychopath who can fvck off.

Sometimes, not holding back the tears gives a better impression to others than being a cold emotionless drone. I'm pretty sure the type of woman who would have an issue with a mans tears is also the type of woman who herself is repressed, emotional problems just waiting to boil over and explode in your face.

Want to see how good of a woman you've found? Cry in front of her, it will expose her femininity or lack thereof, anything other than support and consolation and she's garbage.

Having a past of repressed feelings and the exact ideals of toughening up, hardening up, not cry and being strong, I can tell that these so-called macho ideals are fvcking bullsh!t and downright harmful. I didn't even have success with women back then, I just kept spiralling down into depression and despair. That all ended when I finally let loose my emotions and started treating myself with compassion.

If you want to torture yourself, that's fine, but don't try to sell it off as good advice to others, because it most certainly is not.
Damn bro, I can address every single one of these points because I’ve thought about ALL of them before, but firstly it’d take too long, and secondly I’d want it to reach more people. I’ll start another thread on it soon, God-willing. But I will say this: women find men crying to be revolting because it’s emasculate. A man who cries is a liability, not someone who is able to father children and provide for them.
Good post. I think the guy in the pic is Kawhi Leonard. Finally, a celebrity DJ advocate!
Nah, it’s actually a rapper named Future, but that’s pretty close. Future is known to say ‘misogynistic’ things about women to the point that he’s become a meme on Twitter because of it lol. Here’s a couple you’ll enjoy:

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But I will say this: women find men crying to be revolting because it’s emasculate. A man who cries is a liability, not someone who is able to father children and provide for them.
In many contexts yes, in some contexts no. I don't cry often at all myself, can't even remember the last time, but there have been times where it's not healthy to keep it in and frankly I didn't give a fvck about how I was perceived. Those are times of funeral levels of emotional pain though. I wouldn't cry over a woman, wouldn't cry if I lost my job, wouldn't cry if my house burned down, it would have to be worse than that. Just to give you a sense of at what level I think crying is appropriate for an adult.

If it was that bad, I cried and a woman found that revolting then I would not only have no issue with her leaving, I'd encourage her to GTFO. A woman who can't support a man in rough times isn't a good woman. While sure the man should lead the way most of the time, we may fall on bad times and if a woman leaves instead helping you back up she is not fulfilling her feminine role of care and support. As such she's a sh!tty woman not worth keeping around anyways.

If we’re gonna go deeper and get to more advanced stuff, it’s not ‘vulnerability’ that is strong, but rather the confronting of one’s own internal fears and weakness and shortcomings.
Kinda true, but most often people deceive themselves just as much as they deceive others about their personal issues. I'm not advocating for posting that sh!t on Facebook or blabbing about it to everyone you know. Much of what prevents guys from confronting it in the first place is their fear of others finding out about it. Personally confronting it is ultimately what needs to happen, but having the courage to not fear others finding out about it is an important stepping stone. Again, doesn't mean it must be shared with everyone or even anyone at all. The point is being able to be vulnerable, not to be vulnerable at all times.

When there's a deep fear about other people finding out the truth about you, then being vulnerable is a display of strength just as much as facing any other fear is.

So yeah, what you say is kinda true, but you're wrong about the part regarding vulnerability.
 

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The point is being able to be vulnerable, not to be vulnerable at all times.
No. You're making it about being vulnerable when in reality it's about confronting your weaknesses. Like I said before, it's not the act of being vulnerable, it's the act of confronting your own fear that exhibit strength. Not 'being vulnerable'.
Personally confronting it is ultimately what needs to happen, but having the courage to not fear others finding out about it is an important stepping stone. Again, doesn't mean it must be shared with everyone or even anyone at all.
In regards to this, we're saying the same thing but just in a different way lol
 

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No. You're making it about being vulnerable when in reality it's about confronting your weaknesses. Like I said before, it's not the act of being vulnerable, it's the act of confronting your own fear that exhibit strength. Not 'being vulnerable'.
It is basically the same though.

In regards to this, we're saying the same thing but just in a different way lol
Yeah, I don't think we stand so far apart really.
 

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It is basically the same though.
It isn't. It's a subtle nuance that many younger men will interpret as "being weak is okay".

Like I said before, there is an aspect of being vulnerable with yourself in confronting your fears, but confronting your fears is not being vulnerable in and of itself.
 

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It's a subtle nuance that many younger men will interpret as "being weak is okay".
I think it's a good thing to accept one's own weaknesses and necessary to start fixing them. It being interpreted as "it's okay to remain weak" is bad though.

Like I said before, there is an aspect of being vulnerable with yourself in confronting your fears, but confronting your fears is not being vulnerable in and of itself.
I don't see how you can confront something you don't acknowledge.

You may be the type of person who just powers through it, but most people can't do that. They need to be compassionate towards themselves before they gain the strength to improve. Many guys trying to fix themselves end up burning out because they unknowingly look down on their weakness and thus themselves, so they're essentially just smashing their head against a brick wall. Besides, you will have a better foundation for strength of you dare to reach the bottom first.
 
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