"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bringing a smile

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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Hello there brothers !
Long time no seeing!

I come here in my 444th post to write you something that won't get you any pus$y. No. You'll never get closer to nailing a certain babe by doing this. Nor with her friends.
In fact, this won't even get you popularity. It will make you lose your friends.

But those who see the greatness of this message, will come here and tell the ignorants what will you win. And it is priceless.

Sometimes, in the highness of your DJ towers, we forget to understand that "regular" people have feelings, and have not the same control over them that we have.

When they're happy, they have no control over it, and when they're sad, they get hopelessly desperate, because they can't control their sadness either.

So, we, "superior" people, who have a more acurate control of our emotions, should help these "normal" people, who aren't.

But many of us, now I include all the Male species, are reckless with other people's feelings.
People hurt each other on purpose, laugh about it and think that it is the most natural thing to do.

Many men believe that making fun of a girl, putting her underpressure, or saying whatever you want to her, will never hurt them. Or, if she gets hurt, she's troubled so f*ck her.

I don't think so.

Girls are frail creatures. Their hearts are made of porcelain. Even though they always mend, sometimes it takes too long, and some dents will persist for the rest of their lives.

Mostly, their hearts are broken by men, or because of men.
And this is not only us, but their fathers too.
Girls, just like us, suffer from irrational, hard-to-talk-to parents.
Fathers that don't allow them to have fun, to have a personality, and say whatever they want to them.

You see, it's very very hard to see ladies who have a completely healthy relationship with their fathers. They come from older generations, who used to put little to noone value to women.

Like the cliche of the 50's, where men would work and be the leaders of the family and the women would be submissive and obbey.

Well, these guys carry this mentality in a society of girl power. Girls see in the media the older, independent, beautiful women and feel inferior and unable to compete. This brings them down, and make them feel depressed, sad and lonely.

They lack self-esteem, which may sometimes ending up in a lack of self-respect, so you see all those women degrading theirselves more and more.

And to make matters worse, the men of their age (from 15 to 18) are only interested in sex sex sex. And they don't want sex. They want to feel safe, protected.

They want a man who gives them the protection, the motivation and the value that her own family doesn't give her.
You see, girls with a good relationship with their families are always smiling and confident.

Very often, they'll buy into an illusion of safety only to find out later that her bf only want sex or fun. But the thought of being alone is so scary that they hold on tight to them, even know that they're suffering.

So you see young women unhappy in unhealthy relationships.
Or even worse, young women alone, not being able to find someone who sees what she goes thru and actually gives her a grip.

That's where you come in.
But first, think a lot and see if your intentions are noble.
See if you really DO NOT WANT ANYTHING IN RETURN.
Because, if you do, you'll only feed the dynamic of suffering and insecurity.

Without wanting one single thing in return, one small favor, one quarter for gum, bring a smile to a girl.

Make them laugh. Tickle them.
Show them how funny, beautiful, caring and sweet they are.
Let them know, that, even though 95% of all men only make her sad and hurt, you don't.
You can see through all the sh!t that she goes through, and you know that she's a great person.

She may not be beautiful, she may not be the funniest, the most talented, but she surely is special. Every girl is special. They all have some particularity that you'll never found again in another girl.

It's hard to explain, but I just love women. In general. I believe that the great majority of them are good people. They may put on some masks put deep down they're all sweet and caring. It's in their genes.

When you spot a nice, caring girl, sad, lonely, depressed, sometimes even crying, help her !

Make her understand that she's a special, important and great person. That she's valuable and you love her company. That she's funny, extroverted, easy to talk to. That's she's very cute.
She's the sister you've always wanted to have.

Heal her soul with your gifts. Make her laugh, make her feel good.
Tickle her, give her a massage or just lend her your ear for some minutes.
Make a link to her heart, win her trust.

Care, for real, about her. About what she's going through.

You're happy, you're strong. So you must share your happiness and your strength with those who need.

As I said before, this won't get you laid. Nor get you closer. Not going to get you dates or phone numbers.
But, in the moment that you understand the greatness of this message, you'll learn what you will win.

Sincerely,

BBB
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eternal

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*Sniff* BBB, you're my hero!!
 

Evil-Rom

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You're very inspirational BBB! :D
 

Capi Crimini

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Exacto. Good Job
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mikelo2k

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Man, this is a touching post. I love to help people, and if I ever manage to find a girl that is hurt or troubled, i'll be there to comfort her.

Great post :)
 

comic_relief

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bumpity bump bump bumpity bump bump

look at this post guys. It builds character if you do it. I disagree that it will not get you any closer to popularity though.

People see that if you are popular that you have character and people are attracted to charisma, character, and somebody that is real.

Listen guys, follow BBB's advice.

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