Bringing A new Girl in front of an ex.

[PimpOfTheSouth]

What are your views on this? There is a big party going down and I know she's going to be there. I have not once showed up with another girl in front of her the whole time we have been broken up.

The whole purpose of it though is not to get this girl back I dont want her. Not to long ago she was texting me and calling me telling me I can't get anybody better than her, for no reason whatsoever and it really pissed me off. Well I found a girl who is better.

So tell me what's a better move not going to the Party at all and just putting it in the past or showing up with a New Woman in front of her?

FYI. I actually don't really care much about the party so if my ex wasn't going I wouldn't be either. I just thought since I knew she was going to be there I would Make A Statement.

Opinions?

 

[katatonia]

I'd do it, especially since she got all b1tchy saying you can't get anybody better than her... fvck that uptight slvt. Act polite but mostly cold to your ex throughout the night, give her very little attention. Meanwhile give your new girl (and other hotties you find there) a lot of attention, act all lovey with your new girl when your ex is in view which should drive her mad. Then sneak out for a few minutes with your fired up jealous ex and revenge sex the hell out of her.

Well I'm a 'revenge-minded' person so my approach is made for that, but if revenge isn't your thing then don't bother; each to their own.

EDIT: I read in your post that you don't want your ex back so I guess there's no real point in doing my plan (minus the last bit) except to gratify your ego. It's up to you...

 

[PlaysToWin]

Yes, you could go through this charade to make her jealous / get at her / whatever. Or you could be a man and get over her.

Seriously, why the hell do you care what she thinks of you? And why are you dragging your new girl through this mess?

Oh and stop reading her texts.

 

[BananaSmile]

I say try it out
maybe it'll be fun doing that to your ex(plus she deserves it)

if you dont you dont really lose anything *but u may not gain anything either*

 

[sodbuster]

Why? It drives my ex-wife NUTS to see a strange car in my drive,but she's never met any of them. If you don't want to go to the party,but will to pizz off your ex-she's still controling you. Why would you care what she said? you still care about her OPINION. If a homeless bum lying drunk in the street told you "you suck" you wouldn't care,but her opinion matters to you. WHY?

You need to get past caring about what she thinks. I had my wife say the same thing. Now she's an ex. If I date or marry another, I won't care about inviting my ex to the wedding.

IF the party is a big social event,and you wanted to go,fine. BUT for your reasons,not to show up the ex.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Thanks for all the responses and Opinions. Another question I had is at what time is it ok to actually talk with an Ex? Or is it better to drop them completely?

My Ex it seems can't go more then a month without having some kind of contact with me. We have been broken up for a year now and the pattern continues.

Does anybody have an idea of why she's doing this? In my opinion she's doing it to keep me close to her and make sure im still there. It's something that I don't like that's why im asking for everybody's opinion.

 

[ThatMysteriousGuy]

What are your views on this? There is a big party going down and I know she's going to be there. I have not once showed up with another girl in front of her the whole time we have been broken up.

Just treat your Ex like she's a cousin. Burn that into your mind.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Im going with the simple idea of not even showing up I wouldn't want her to get the Idea that im trying to make her Jealous.

 

[SLY]

Im going with the simple idea of not even showing up I wouldn't want her to get the Idea that im trying to make her Jealous.

Good point.


Also the fact that she'll probably notice the smirk on your face and your "look at me now" glances you throw at her from time to time....she'll immeadiately know what's going on. Then she figures that you're just trying too hard. :woo: