"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bring You Down???

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Ok... well whilst a phone conversation i had with a lady, she told me this out of nowhere. And I really mean NOWHERE.

Female : I'm going to be the one that brings you down.

Me : What?

Female : I'm going to be the one that brings you down.

Me : Um... what exactly does that mean... I've never had a female bring me "down" so i highly doubt you will ever achieve that.

Female : Slight laugh..

Me : What are you talking about?

Female : Well you don't get what i'm saying but it's going to happen so let's just move on.

Me : *****y laugh* Interesting......

WTF does this mean???

I've NEVER had this but it sure as hell made me think about it. And it was sexy the way she said it... She was a nervous WRECK in the beginning of the phone conversation then out of nowhere she busted that out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Could mean multiple things.

She thinks she's going to wrangle you into marrying her.

She's going to embarass you in front of people.

She's going to beat your all time Pac-Man record at the local arcade.

She's going to hire a hitman to garotte you in your sleep.

It's impossible to tell with so little information. What's your relationship with this woman? Is she a prospect, new fling, FWB, LTR, escort, what?
 
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Prospect...

That I met off Myspace, AIM, then got her number. hahahahahaha. (Laughing on the debate in the other topic.)

She called me around 9 or 10 or so.

I've been in the game for 4-5 years now and I've NEVER had that response.

Hey Sinner... I like your posts, we think alike. Do you have AIM?
 
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Hmmm, interesting. Does she perhaps know one or more of your "ex"s or do you have a particularly strong reputation of being a player?

And I do have AIM, but I'm too scatterbrained to ever remember to log in to it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She wants to fvck you?
 
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