Bring a rose on first date?

[pete101]

despite all the good advices here you still stuck with the rose (AFC)...you are trying to hard..it's just a first date so relax, go somewhere that give both of you the chance to escape in case it doesn't work out. No one want to stuck in a 2hr piknik if there is no chemistry.

You projected to much the outcome...let it play out, seize the moment

Coffee, ice scream...drink at local bar lounge, terrace..etc

Be lightheart, flirt, funny..give her something that most guys don't. Good companionship instead of trying to impress her or buy her.

See you suggest a drink at a local bar lounge but this will cost me a crapload of money as oppose to the park date.

She's hot, I want to bang her at the very least. If she's not relationship material I don't care, I still want to bang her.

I will see it as a failure if I don't get to do it since I've met enough women off Facebook now that I should know that these awkward first meetings of a stranger can easily be eradicated with a little extra effort.

I've read in the tips it suggests doing action dates like going to the park feeding the ducks, playing pool etc etc go for cheap dates. the thing is going to play pool inevitably you'll be getting drinks so it costs a lot more to do that than just grabbing a drink at a bar only. obviously the pool aspect makes it more involved than just boring talking but still it's going to cost me a bundle.

I'm tired to spending money on these girls so I set a limit of around under $15 for these Facebook meetings. If she's expecting a fancy expensive dinner she can go f*ck herself, but that's what she expects from guys who take her out.. the whole Sex and the city bull****

 

[DJDamage]

You are simply trying to overcompesnate for your lack of game.

If you would have picked her up in person, none of these issues would have arised.

Go read the DJ Bible and apply it to your life instead of feeling your way in the dark.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Until she's giving you sex and bl0wj0bs everytime you want , youre not paying her even one drink .

 

[pete101]

You are simply trying to overcompesnate for your lack of game.

If you would have picked her up in person, none of these issues would have arised.

Go read the DJ Bible and apply it to your life instead of feeling your way in the dark.

where's the DJ bible??

 

[shaunuk]

Fvck any expectations etc she has. She is not a princess...even if in her own little world she thinks she is. You've never even met her. If she expects all this fancy crap, screw her...don't people know how to just be social?

Get your gameface on man, be cool, escalate and fvck her.

 

[verysuave]

No. Why? Because you don't even know her yet

 

[shaunuk]

DJ Bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

 

[MaddXMan]

Rose on the first date = corny.

 

[LoneSilver]

This thread brought back memories when I asked this one girl out years ago..

I was attracted by her figure didn't really know at the time how her personality was but she wore her jeans just right and I wanted in those jeans..

Well, I thought I'd be romantic and bought a long stem rose and put it in the trunk of my car at the time..I took her dancing where she got a little buzz but as I was getting to know her I thought in my gentleman ways then I don't want to screw her tonight I want to know her better...

As I was leaving the club I told her I got something in my trunk special only for her it was during the winter and the dam rose froze while we were in the club...I handed it to her and it went to pieces the petals falling onto her lap and she says to me so impressed and excited... 'dam! No guy has ever given me a fu*kin' rose before' she was really surprised and reached over and deep throated me with her tongue.

On the way home she hinted to me she loved sex but wasn't a slut or wh*re and I completely ignored what she was trying to get across to me cause I had made up my mind I wanted to get to know her better before I have sex with her.

I asked her out for another date called her a couple times to set it up and never got an answer so I just moved on...

I kept thinking after this that I knew she was ready to screw that night and I could have done it but I had made up my mind to get to know her better I just felt at the time it was the right thing to do.

Years later I ran into her and didn't recognize her cause she gained so much weight she looked totally different from the petite little tight figure she once had but that mouth and her cussing remained the same....

Anyway, I recently found out she died and was a bit sadden by her passing as she was much younger then me and part of my memory bank. I will always remember her words...'dam! No guy has ever given me a fu*kin' rose before'.....

You know... thinking about it... I bet I was properly the only one that ever did and I have no regrets..

May she rest in peace.

LoneSilver