cordoncordon
Master Don Juan
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I thought you were going out to dinner?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
you know what... I knew octave was Pletchers best horse.. you just have boxed the tri.Suicide said:BB, if you were here now a beer would be in order for how we called the Distaff.
I hit a HUGE tri with Octave, hystericalady and Ginger Punch as my last minute third choice.
I also made over a G on a last minute Ginger Punch/ALL exacta. That was a great race.
Lahudood bought my dinner tonight.
I hit the super in the classic along with a $100 win bet on Curlin. But I lost a bit on Tiago.
you know what... I knew octave was Pletchers best horse.. you just have boxed the tri.Suicide said:BB, if you were here now a beer would be in order for how we called the Distaff.
I hit a HUGE tri with Octave, hystericalady and Ginger Punch as my last minute third choice.
I also made over a G on a last minute Ginger Punch/ALL exacta. That was a great race.
Lahudood bought my dinner tonight.
I hit the super in the classic along with a $100 win bet on Curlin. But I lost a bit on Tiago.
Correct... I had an Octave; hystericalady; Ginger Punch; Prop Me Up tri box.backbreaker said:you know what... I knew octave was Pletchers best horse.. you just have boxed the tri.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you are so bent out of shape about it maybe you should have done your own research.cordoncordon said:Again, based on your pics going into today, you hit 1 out of 8, and your two best bets that were going to get the majority of your cash, both lost.
I am telling you guys now, as a guy who has been in the horse racing biz for 20 years, BB claiming he made thousands today is a total impossibility based on the bets he claimed he was going to make.
I think it's like $24 or something for a $2 four horse tri box. It might be more.backbreaker said:that's one thing I have never done.. boxed a tri. Because I never like 3 horses ThAt much. I usually at least like 2 better than 1. how much is that 12 bucks?
and you know what else I had and didn't ****ing bet? The lauluhood/Honey Ryder Exacta. even ****ing called it in this thread. GF had bought me someting to eat while I was at the window and I was so busy trying to get my hamburger my mind went blank. And about 5 mintues later I said "watch it come in"
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
you had to see her back in August to know she was this good, which I did. And also that the only shot on hell is her on a soft turf. which today was.Suicide said:I think it's like $24 or something for a $2 four horse tri box. It might be more.
And I hit that with a $10 exacta box. I was actually pretty surprised that Lahudood came in at all.
No I believe BB made what he said because Lahudood was $25 (I don't really understand it since the odds were 11 to 1) and Kip Deville was about $20. So if I would've bet on these 2 horse I wouldve been up at least 3-5x my original bank roll. But I didn't have those horses to win or whatever. That's the problem though I was trying to copy BB's picks and it's key to get the same results you have to get all of the same picks and to spread your bankroll correctly. I didn't do this because I didn't know any better or have perfect information at the time. If I would just bet something on Lahuddod I wouldve came out ahead. I didn't have anything left to wager at that point I didn't have my bets spread right.cordoncordon said:Again, based on your pics going into today, you hit 1 out of 8, and your two best bets that were going to get the majority of your cash, both lost.
I am telling you guys now, as a guy who has been in the horse racing biz for 20 years, BB claiming he made thousands today is a total impossibility based on the bets he claimed he was going to make.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If the odds are 11-1, you would get $11 on a one dollar bet. The payout results at the end are generally off of a $2 bet. Lahudood paid $25.40 on a $2 bet.ketostix said:No I believe BB made what he said because Lahudood was $25 (I don't really understand it since the odds were 11 to 1) and Kip Deville was about $20.
Ok I guess its its a $2 minimum on a win. It seems like $2x11+2 should beSuicide said:If the odds are 11-1, you would get $11 on a one dollar bet. The payout results at the end are generally off of a $2 bet. Lahudood paid $25.40 on a $2 bet.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.