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Greetings men.
I found this by way of searching the web on how to talk to women. I'm 30 years old and I have no game at all. Never had it. But that didn't stop me from finding a wife and getting married.
Well unfortunately my marriage lasted 6 years and just two months ago, after years of fighting and counseling, the marriage was called off for good.
Regardless, after a 6 year stint, I'm not ready for another relationship, but I do want to utilize my down time to my advantage. Which is, learning how to approach and talk to women with confidence. I figured, what do I have to loose. I will say that during my time being married, I have let myself go (5'11, 230lbs) and my wardrobe could use some updating (jeans, collard shirt... glasses
) so there some changes in store.
On my own though, I've been working on things like making eye contact, and saying "hi" to a woman. I've engaged in small talk but due to my lack of knowledge coupled with experience on talking with women and engaging in conversations, they normally just end awkwardly and I start again from scratch.
My aim here is to not only improve my confidence, but to establish a rapport with women and hopefully, find the one that was really the one and never let her go. Sounds cheesy, but that is my ultimate goal.
So hope I'm accepted here because even though I realize that I will be doing all the heavy lifting, I will be in need your help and support.
Ok. That's enough for post number one today.
Time to get some sleep and really start the first day of the rest of my life.
See you guys around.
I found this by way of searching the web on how to talk to women. I'm 30 years old and I have no game at all. Never had it. But that didn't stop me from finding a wife and getting married.
Well unfortunately my marriage lasted 6 years and just two months ago, after years of fighting and counseling, the marriage was called off for good.
Regardless, after a 6 year stint, I'm not ready for another relationship, but I do want to utilize my down time to my advantage. Which is, learning how to approach and talk to women with confidence. I figured, what do I have to loose. I will say that during my time being married, I have let myself go (5'11, 230lbs) and my wardrobe could use some updating (jeans, collard shirt... glasses
) so there some changes in store. On my own though, I've been working on things like making eye contact, and saying "hi" to a woman. I've engaged in small talk but due to my lack of knowledge coupled with experience on talking with women and engaging in conversations, they normally just end awkwardly and I start again from scratch.
My aim here is to not only improve my confidence, but to establish a rapport with women and hopefully, find the one that was really the one and never let her go. Sounds cheesy, but that is my ultimate goal.
So hope I'm accepted here because even though I realize that I will be doing all the heavy lifting, I will be in need your help and support.
Ok. That's enough for post number one today.
Time to get some sleep and really start the first day of the rest of my life.
See you guys around.
