"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the_azn_fu

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so, any suggestions on how to get back with an ex girlfriend if you broke up mutually?
just ignor her? anything?
thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

jmm854

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Perhaps show her the man you showed her from the get go. You didn't break up for no reason. Something went wrong.

But in all honesty, jumping off a cliff will probably cause you less pain and much less heartache than continuing to persue her. Do what you want but you're setting yourself up for a big disappointment.
 

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Do you really want to get back with her mate? It's usually not a good thing to get back with someone you fell apart with (no matter how 'soft' it was). Read all the magazines - celebrities are always getting divorced/dumped/impregnated and then dumped/dogs with training wheels.

It's the same thing, don't go delving into old territory. Find consolation within the future :)
 
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