breakup advice

[danthemann]

I need some advice on what to do here. I just graduated High School this past year and am going to college in a couple of weeks. My girlfriend of 7 months and I are ironically going to the same Instate college. We've been trying to decide whether or not to stay together going into college and what not. I honestly am 50/50 on it, But she really wants to stay together. The girls at this school are so hot and I would really like to meet other girls and switch it up a bit. But on my other half, like I love my girlfriend and all and right now it would make me pretty upset to see her with another dude or see her trying to get with other guys if we broke up. We're going to a relativly small instate school and we would probably bump into eachother from time to time.
Just wondering if anyone had some helpful advice on a situation like this to help me out a bit.

 

[KontrollerX]

Use her desire to stay with you to your advantage.

Keep the relationship going but look for a replacement girl on the side.

Once you find a new girl at the college ditch your current girl.

Don't feel bad about it either because the minute you both get to this college your current girl is going to be hunting for a new guy anyway.

She just wants to stay together with you to have a guy until she finds a new one so do the same and once you find a new girl ditch the dead weight.

 

[Evzone]

Only you can decide. You're going to get a different opinion from everyone here. Do what you think you'd be happiest with, not just in the short term.

Have fun in college though. Your first few months as a freshman is when you are going to meet a ton of people. It's also when people are at their most chill, since everyone is in the same position as you are.

 

[Bible_Belt]

right now it would make me pretty upset to see her with another dude or see her trying to get with other guys if we broke up.


That is the true test of whether you still have feelings for her.


regarding:
Keep the relationship going but look for a replacement girl on the side.

that is just sound advice for any relationship. It's what women do to men. Don't be obvious about what you are doing. Most male-female "friendships" are really this type of on-the-shelf arrangement.

I would guess that there is probably a more than 50/50 chance of you two breaking up next year anyway, but also tell you to not worry about it. If life is good, and your girl makes you happy, then enjoy it while you have it. Once again, that is sound advice for any relationship. After you have been through a lot of them, you will gain perspective on the way that women come and go in your life. Like a nice sunny day, just enjoy it for what it is, because it probably won't last. And that is perfectly ok, just how life is.

 

[eaglez1177]

^Excellent advice.

Plus, are you really going to trust your gf to be loyal while in college? Just think about it. Think about all the parties shes going to be going to, and you wont be there. Then, think about all the guys that are going to try to have s*x with her or something.

College should be a ton of fun, dont let yourself be chained down to one girl, find another girl on the side and just fvck her. Or, you could just dump ur gf now but still stay in contact with her to become fvck buddies.

 

[shydude]

MY OPINION on this would be dump her and go PARTY YOU FKING SON OF A ****SUKAAA HAHAA! ITS COLLEGE BABYY!! trust me ur gonna enjoy every minute of it single!!! u will have enough time for long relationships when your 40.