breakup advice needed

[AdamG]

Ok so me and my partner have just broken up after 3 & 1/2 years, we have 2 young children together, it appears she has moved on and started seeing somebody new almost immediately.

I guess really I have myself to blame, I made her unhappy and pushed her away, this is not self pitty or me blaming myself but I have already accepted where I went wrong and know what I did.

What has followed since has been a tirade of nasty text messages and she then had me arrested for harassment, she is currently staying with her Mum with our children, I'm aware she has already contacted a solicitor and is intending to seek a restraining order and an occupation order to have me removed from the house.

I've never hurt her or betrayed her, I just can't understand why she is going to such lengths.

I love her and my children to pieces, I'm unsure on how to move forward, it seems I am my own worst enemy and I just make the situation worse all the time, it doesn't help but the people she is associating with presently are actively trying to dissuade her from getting back with me.

This has happened before but never quite like this and we always seemed to make it through it however I'm less optimistic this time.

I'd appreciate some advice from people on how to move forward and what the best course of action would be.

 

[Tiguere]

get a lawyer. and begin divorce /children visitations agreements.


she isn't coming back she's already tasting a new c0ck . concentrate on your children.

 

[AdamG]

I know for certain she is seeing somebody, would rather not go into the details.

I really don't know what to do at the moment, everything is still quite raw and fresh for me, I despise her right now, she has destroyed everything we had in such a short amount of time.

I feel like just running the opposite direction and washing my hands completely and having a fresh start as bad as it sounds.

I moved across the country to be with her, now I just want to return to where my family is.