"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Breaking Up?

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If I ever have relationship questions, this is one of the first places I come for advice.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 11 months (Not long I know, but it seems like forever) We are both in theatre so we spend everyday together and we have nearly all of the same courses. Lately she has been showing signs of extreme jealousy and I feel like I can't even talk to a girl without her giving me a hard time or that she thinks that the girl might think I am flirting. I kinda feel like I miss being single and I don't know what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've always said that if you think you'd be happier out of a relationship, GET OUT.

If the only reason you're staying in this relationship is to avoid hurting her feelings, that is not a good reason.

Girls are naturally jealous, especially if you talk to many women. There's really nothing you can do about this, besides laying down the law. Even then, girls will be girls.

Jealousy isn't a great reason to end a relationship, as if your girl is jealous, that is a good thing. If she didn't care, that's when you need to start worrying. However, if it is overboard jealousy, sometimes that is enough to make the relationship unenjoyable.

So I come back to my first point; If you believe you'd be happier single, then just do it. You're young and you should be out meeting other women anyways.
 
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1st gfs never usually work out. Plus you are only 20 years old. If I could turn back the clocks, I think I'd be single in my early 20 unless I found a truly KNOCKOUT girl who was great in every way.

This girl truly isn't for you.
 
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