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The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Lol... Basically my gf of 2 months went on some school camp for a week.
Saw her the day before she left at her place and everything was sweet.

Texted her after her first day asking how it was and got normal response
then texted her the day before she returned, she sent me some crappy reply 19 hours later which was just like "yes i am ok" with no Xs(lol...)

That was a week ago texted her a bit after but with the same effect. Had asked to meet up but she was genuinely busy although she did not attempt to organize a different time so i left it at that.

Tried to start an IM convo last night, said "how have you been" to which she just replied "ok". Could not be bothered with her **** so i just decided to go do something else.

Now i don't really want to break up with her and i think it would be stupid seeing as i havent seen her in person in almost 2 weeks and the last time i did see in her person she was really receptive etc. It seems pretty obvious that she is trying to cause us to "drift apart" at which point we can just stop seeing each other.

So,
should i just cut my losses and break up with her myself
Or just carry on not talking to her and see what happens.
Or should i try to organize a meet like i might brake up with her and see what happens i.e "meet me, we need to talk"

Thanks for reading sorry about the length, bear in mind i still want to be with her but if it is over then i can accept that.
 

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Mate, she's your gf, don't beat around the bush in trying to contact her, just call her up and talk to her. If she's weird, ask her what the hell's wrong. And if it seems obvious she's trying to break it off, well then break it off.
 
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Wait for her to call you next. Or call her up and get to the bottom of things.
 
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