Breaking through the shell -- sarging

[slick]

Hey all,

I am 24, a virgin, slim build, and pretty good looking. I have no problem keeping eye contact with girls. But my look usually conveys, “nothing”, a blank stare. No smile, no wink, noda. What I want to do is to get more comfortable with approaching women and meeting new people. When going out sarging, what do you recommend to do? Are there any baby steps I could take. My intent is to flirt, have a few laughs, and maybe get a number. I am thinking of going down-town on the weekend, and do some shopping. What should my objective be for a first time sarge? Smile with eye contact? 10 women? 20 women?

slick

 

[Jay Jay]

Go down to the bottom of the page.

Click on the link that says "DJ bible."

Click on "Boot Camp."

The first lesson has some great tips about EC.

And the boot camp itself sounds exactly like what you want.

JJ

 

[COD]

goto a mall........the hired guns (women who work there) get paid to be nice to you.

This is where you work on your small talk skills, he do have a shirt that will make me look even hotter.

pretend you work there----GO into a womans clothing store and walk up to a chic and say wow that looks amazing on you but red is not your color, You might want to try some hooker boots to complet the look. That dress makes you look hot, you will cause an accident if you wear that outfit.

then admit you dont work there but wanted to suggest some fashion tips.....then if she laughs......whip out the cell phone get her digits (level 2)

master level---ask her to go have lunch right then and there then leave with her, if she is cool and you got a spark.....then hit her up for a phone number after you two clicked for a bit. But you might want to stick with the get the digits and leave approach, your still new

 

[slick]

Hey thanks for the responses. I have spent way to much time learning some of this stuff, and not doing anything about it. I.e. David Deangelo, Mystery, Neil Strauss, etc. I will dl both the DJ bible and bootcamp. Being more interested in the boot camp.

Hey Cod, reading your response regarding the master level game, makes the hair on my back stand up. Currently that is a little too much for my reality. Only because 1. I have never done that, and 2. Makes me nervous to ****, feel like throwing up. LOL. Hence the baby steps. But what I have to get down before I go out sarging is my mind frame. Mostly how to be relax, have fun, not take things personlay, and not be outcome orriented.

Probably the hardest part about thie game is facing yourself. I am not perfect, but I think I have come along way with my internal issues. Anyways enough BS.

slick

 

[Lust]

Go down to the bottom of the page.

Click on the link that says "DJ bible."

Click on "Boot Camp."

The first lesson has some great tips about EC.

And the boot camp itself sounds exactly like what you want.

JJ

I was going to say that, but JJ beat me to it.

Read the bible, it has everything you need to know in it.

For "Baby Steps", what i did was approaching the hottest women and asking them really innocent and mundane things. Like, approach the hottest chick you see, ask for the time, smile, and leave. I used to do it like 30 times. It just gets you comfortable in the presence of a really hot stranger.

Another thing is, have a wing with you, or a mate. But choose carefully! Make sure it's someone outgoing, and fun to be around. Someone that will crack jokes and edge you on. Someone that is positive and interesting to be around. It always helps me.

 

[slick]

For "Baby Steps", what i did was approaching the hottest women and asking them really innocent and mundane things. Like, approach the hottest chick you see, ask for the time, smile, and leave. I used to do it like 30 times. It just gets you comfortable in the presence of a really hot stranger.

That is hilarious, and very good idea. I could definetly handle that. Wondeing if any of these HB gave you attitude? HAH. I am already atarting to think about contingency for such a simple opening. Nice.

And as far as wings, definetly need someone outgoing. When you are with a wing, do you tel him all about the plan, when to come in, etc?

 

[Lust]

That is hilarious, and very good idea. I could definetly handle that. Wondeing if any of these HB gave you attitude? HAH. I am already atarting to think about contingency for such a simple opening. Nice.

And as far as wings, definetly need someone outgoing. When you are with a wing, do you tel him all about the plan, when to come in, etc?

Out of the countless times I've asked simple, mundane questions, not one woman gave me a rude response. They may not have been attracted to me, or very receptive, but most would just answer the question anyway. This isn't going to get you anywhere though, remember, this is a "baby step". You need to move on from this and start running proper sets.

With the wings, most of the time, we just "wing" it. No pun intended.

I mean, just go in there and make it up, of course when we are serious we get all the routines out and run a real tight set, my wing will know exactly what I'm doing. But since you are just starting out, you don't need to do that yet. Just make sh!t up as you go along.