i recently noticed there is this girl in my class, she's really cute... it's weird i didnt notice her before. it's one of those class where students doesnt really get a chance to chat. you come in teacher lectures and that's it. i was thinking of just asking her after class to go study or something. any advice on the best way to break the ice?? thankss
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breaking the ice!
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SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
This can be very easy and straight-forward. What I used to do in college when I saw someone I wanted to talk to in class I would kind of walk aside/along them then ask them what they thought of the upcoming/past midterm or final. Broken ice right there. No lady in her right mind would not answer such an innocent question. Then you can break off into **** like why they are taking the class and what part of the state they're from. At the end just say that you're going to the library at whatever time and see if they want to meet you there to study. Then after study you can suggest getting a bite... Oh yea, if she isn't down, just remember she's the one missing out and that's good that you tried.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
MONEYSickAgain said:
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SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
So what happened?
i talked to her in class today finally, i sat next to her, and asked if she wanted to go study tomorrow since we have a test wednesday... and she said she would go, but she has work all day tomorrow. she said next time, so what do you think? i should of asked for her number anyways, im gonna do wednesday.SickAgain said:
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
At least you know her now. It all depends on the kind of vibe you got from her. If it was good, keep trying. If not, I wouldn't really try it. If you have big balls you can just say, I really don't need to study I just wanted to get to know you. Usually its a lot easier to get a girl interested when they know there's a guy who is interested too.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
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MooseGod
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I can vouch for the studying thing... When I was doing the pilot thing I asked this Russian girl in my groundschool class to study (actually the ONLY girl in the class), we ended up studying for about 30 minutes maybe, then one thing led to another.... yeah. 
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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
That is so on-point, I actually opened a hottie in my class that had been eyeing me for a minute when I was walking outside of class with her today with the exact line "What did you think about the midterm?" today!SickAgain said:
Epic!
good ****! so did you get her number? our midterm is tomorrow also, its gonna be hard to talk tomorrow since we're just gonna come in and take a test. maybe if i finish early i can chill outside and pretend to run into her.Serialized3 said:
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
That's not a good idea. Because it's going to build anxiety. The whole point is it to be natural. Not all set up. You can treat everyone in class like a friend since you're all fighting the same enemy: the professor. A better idea would be to wait 'til the next day in class and sit closer to the girl, make opportunities instead of forced impatient actions. And make sure when you do talk to her drop a hint that you are an interesting person or else you're just a boring kid in class who probably plays video games all day.yama600rr said:
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
Nah, I was just laying groundwork, I'm planning on an insta-date or #-close on thursday when I see her again, though.yama600rr said:
It just so happened that I ended another midterm at the same time as anther girl today. I insta-dated her after class (went to get beers), and she's showing some potential
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