"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Breaking the barrier--Question

LuckyDevil6

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Okay... so heres basically the story of tonight..I got this girl, who is basically just a hook up buddy (who was my gf like a few months back) and she comes over tonight.. I pop in a movie, then start making out with her and everything is fine. Later, I lift her up and carry her to my room and then to my bed. I get this 'crazy' idea to play a stripping game ;) So i take off her shirt. which she was fine with.. she takes off mine.. i'm def. fine with :D but then once it comes to pants... its like theres a physical barrier; or atleast a mental one where she keeps stopping me :(

My question is basically.. how do you get by this problem? Any tips from anyone who may have had this happen before??

And for all you pervs, yes, i did get them off eventually ;)
I'm a DJ you know :rolleyes:

Thanks for any input.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ Hawtness

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Originally posted by ThaDJ
uh maybe she just doesnt want to have sex??
You're wrong...she did want to have sex, but wanted you (luckydevil) to heat things up by:

1.) kino
2.) kissing
3.) flirting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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