"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Breaking News - Chyna Is Dead

Tenacity

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Chyna (from the WWE) apparently died yesterday (April 20th) due to a drug overdose of some sort. This is very sad, she basically started going downhill when she was kicked out of the WWE and lost her ex-boyfriend HHH at the same time.

I was hoping she would at least get into the Hall of Fame before she died.

http://www.tmz.com/2016/04/20/chyna-dead-wwe-legend-dies/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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phillies

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Chyna (from the WWE) apparently died yesterday (April 20th) due to a drug overdose of some sort. This is very sad, she basically started going downhill when she was kicked out of the WWE and lost her ex-boyfriend HHH at the same time.

I was hoping she would at least get into the Hall of Fame before she died.

http://www.tmz.com/2016/04/20/chyna-dead-wwe-legend-dies/
I heard she was doing a lot of anal porn in the last few years.
 

zekko

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I was never a big fan of Chyna, because she had a fairly masculine vibe when she was wrestling. She even wrestled men. Also not a fan of bodybuilding chicks. And clearly she had a lot of addiction problems and such. But I felt oddly sad when I heard about her passing. I think maybe it was because even though she wasn't a favorite of mine, she did wrestle at a time when wrestling was at its peak, when the product was far more interesting than it is now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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