Hello chums.
Though I've never posted here I'd like to say that I've been using this site for years with much success. During my freshman year of college I was loving the single life and strayed as far away from LTR's as much as possible. After some months however I started dating one of the hottest girls in our grade. She has a lot going for her as far as looks, motivation, accomplishments etc. So she was a catch worth holding on to... ANYWAY, it was a decent relationship however I'm beginning my senior year and I have had enough. It's time to be single again. Now I've told her how I feel and we're seperated.
Now I'm seeking advice not because I "need to get over her etc.
." That's not the problem. The problem lies in the fact that we have had the same mutual friends for the past 2-3 years of college. She's not the most outgoing so our friends gravitate towards me before her. It's not that I mind her being around it's that I simply can't interract with woman to the same extent as if she weren't there. I have a wide enough social circle where I could avoid being around her, (and I do) however I do enjoy hamming it up with these gals/guys. Now you could say "just go out with everyone and don't worry about scoring woman," which I also have been doing but doing this only extends the breakup process and makes it harder for her. I also cannot catch my friends on a night when she isn't around, because she ALWAYS is and does not stay away from them.
So as easy as it would be for me to say **** it, and not concern myself with it, I would like to end this relationship on a reasonable note. This is not to say that I expect her and I to be friends but I don't want to kick her while shes down. I've met some real *****s out there and in comparison she's a solid girl and doesn't deserve it. My question to you chums is how would you suggest ending this ordeal on a dignified note while still having fun with my buddies? (And continuing the incoming stream of strange ass.)
Though I've never posted here I'd like to say that I've been using this site for years with much success. During my freshman year of college I was loving the single life and strayed as far away from LTR's as much as possible. After some months however I started dating one of the hottest girls in our grade. She has a lot going for her as far as looks, motivation, accomplishments etc. So she was a catch worth holding on to... ANYWAY, it was a decent relationship however I'm beginning my senior year and I have had enough. It's time to be single again. Now I've told her how I feel and we're seperated.
Now I'm seeking advice not because I "need to get over her etc.
." That's not the problem. The problem lies in the fact that we have had the same mutual friends for the past 2-3 years of college. She's not the most outgoing so our friends gravitate towards me before her. It's not that I mind her being around it's that I simply can't interract with woman to the same extent as if she weren't there. I have a wide enough social circle where I could avoid being around her, (and I do) however I do enjoy hamming it up with these gals/guys. Now you could say "just go out with everyone and don't worry about scoring woman," which I also have been doing but doing this only extends the breakup process and makes it harder for her. I also cannot catch my friends on a night when she isn't around, because she ALWAYS is and does not stay away from them. So as easy as it would be for me to say **** it, and not concern myself with it, I would like to end this relationship on a reasonable note. This is not to say that I expect her and I to be friends but I don't want to kick her while shes down. I've met some real *****s out there and in comparison she's a solid girl and doesn't deserve it. My question to you chums is how would you suggest ending this ordeal on a dignified note while still having fun with my buddies? (And continuing the incoming stream of strange ass.)