Breaking into her social circle?

[Visionist]

If a girl has obviously displayed no sexual interest during physical meets, and there hasn't been any physical escalation beyond common flirty touching, what's the best way to salvage something and meet her friends instead?

It's frowned upon if she's a plate, but is it OK if you're friends/acquaintances?

Just tell her to hit me up next time she's at a gathering/party? I'm thinking that would come across weird.

The girl in question is in a long-distance relationship.

 

[Soldier King]

Why don't you just be honest if you want something say it. If you're willing to lose her then just take a chance.

If she already has someone then she has no right to control what you do.

That being said, you can actually have a friend it might be useful for you. You can keep her contact info, it may help you down the line especially if you think of something where you need the support of others.

Another idea, she might be jealous of sharing her own social circle but maybe she can be your wing.

The words of Iago:
"there's nothing in the world, nothing in the whole wide world, there's nothing in the world quite like a frieeend."