Breaking down women taste/turning yourself into a good looking bastard

[JdelaSilviera]

First in order to avoid a discussion around definitions I consider good looking = physically attractive (no matter if it´s face or body)

This subject of improving looks and some of the tips might seem "gay", but I think this may help you guys.

We all know "deep" inside the major roll looks play on attraction. If you have a friend who is just repulsive, no matter how much game he has the chances he will pull a very hot girl at any given night at the club are close to zero.

There is no dispute that game is also a tremendous weapon, but I don´t want to turn the discussion that way.

But how to be considered attractive by women? The answer is usually: facial symmetry, and a guy just thinks he needs a plastic surgery since you can´t change that otherwise. It´s far from that. I can tell you that a guy with perfect facial symmetry can be invisible to women, not getting stares at a club or down the street. And believe me, if women find you cute, they will look at you directly like horny sl*ts. If they don´t they will pretend they don´t see you.

We all seen lots of cases where a hot girl dates a guy we consider ugly. And at the first shot he might be ugly, but usually he has something the girl finds physically very attractive, and I can give you some examples, the point of this is that you only need one strong point that removes you from being average, you only need to have something cool about you and she will find you attractive physically wise, and therefore you´re cute/good looking.
In many cases where I thought the hot girl´s boyfriend was ugly he had always something when you looked at him (pick one):
- deep blue eyes (women find that irresistible)
- a very nice smile (teeth very white and all aligned)
- cool hair style
- Tanned or flawless clean skin
- six-pack/ being in shape
Etc.

Once again, it´s like in football, you don´t need to be the perfect player, with speed, stamina, ability to score a goal from the middle of the field, you just need to be very good at one of these things, and you can be average at the rest, and you are already an above average guy.

One thing about most guys, is that they just look dirty, I bet you are grossed out by most men you know when you sit too close to them, their teeth might look gross, their skin might be too oily open pores etc.. You might think that it´s not manly to take care of your skin for instance, but women will find you repulsive (even if they politely smile at you), don´t think they are much more forgiving than us.. That are certain things about your looks that might be repulsive to many people, and no one will tell you till you die and you will think that everything is ok. Look yourself in the mirror with strong lights ( weak light hides some of your imperfections), and be very critical. Do not fool yourself, how is your hair (btw if you are losing hair, you can style it many guys are considered hot being bald, so no excuses), your skin, teeth etc

Women respond very well to strong colors. Colors are more important than facial symmetry (We all know the importance of make up on women, make up gives them colors, contrast, removes imperfections etc.) Hence the dark guys with blue eyes that make lots of success. Darker/tanned skin looks great, if a surfer enters a room with his tan skinned, if his facial bone structure is ok, or even slightly below average (talking about facial symmetry here), he will get noticed by every women. Women will see that all other women are staring at him and there you have pre-selection.

If you are pale, average height, boring brown eyes and hair, how do you expect to get noticed?
If any of you with these characteristics got a tan and a pair of colored contacts, all of a sudden you would have many more women giving you stares.
Don´t obsess with the gym as being the only way to being good looking, there are easier and more powerful ways to achieve that status.
Get a tan (you have some good creams in the market that give you an healthy look during the winter), get contacts, whiten your teeth, clean your skin etc.. All of this can make a night/day difference..
I could go on, many of you have already figured this, but for those who didn´t hope this helps..

 

[floydb25]

And believe me, if women find you cute, they will look at you directly like horny sl*ts. If they don´t they will pretend they don´t see you.

This is true... Glad I don't have that problem. :rockon:

We all seen lots of cases where a hot girl dates a guy we consider ugly. And at the first shot he might be ugly, but usually he has something the girl finds physically very attractive

This is also true... but it's actually guys not knowing how to judge another guy's physical attractiveness for ****. IE: Guys have said I was ugly, not that good looking, this girl's out of my league, etc - AS the girls were saying the EXACT opposite. At the same time. The girls would say I was very attractive, super hot, a pretty boy, someone who only dates a playboy model, etc, and the ones who were approaching me. Guys just thought I was full of myself and being a pretender like all the rest... until they saw all these women showing interest first-hand. Just like all the other good looking guys I knew... other guys judge based on their success rate, female attention received, etc. They don't know **** otherwise. And even then, they still prefer you to be a nobody-pretender like them, and will hate, sabotage, etc to keep you down beneath them. Or they simply don't care.

Just like, if you're taking a break from dating, rejecting advances, maybe are afraid of ***** (that was so me) - everyone assumes you're just ugly, can't attract any women, etc.

People judge based on what they see, hear, maybe a bit of how they want things to be, how things occur for them, and some ego and competition and jealousy mixed in there... as well as what you tell them - which is why you gotta be careful with the whining and sharing of weaknesses and failures... People love to judge others for the worst, and keep things as they WANT them to be. Which is also why you don't care what others think; try to show off; etc. At best, they'll try to compete with you over everything, and down-size your success. Not many people genuinely want you to succeed past them.

So yea, they don't know ****, and 9-10, can't attract any women regardless. These are the ones who also think they know it all, and love to control / define / judge everyone else, and who's in what "league" - those who don't have ****. Aka, losers.

That's my take... guys don't know **** about what women find physically attractive - even in the face. ****, even the guys would say I was "skin and bones", but chicks would say I was buff, "probably have a 6 pack under there", had strong shoulders, etc. Or they'd say I was whiney and not funny or annoying vs. hilarious, sweet, awesome, have a great personality, etc.

Rambling. Basically, don't care what other guys think, or try to compare and size them up, or dissect what women MIGHT find attractive in this guy or that.

 

[mv.89]

Unless until the person is a model or and has people who take care of his skin, I fail to understand how one man can take care of his pores and keep just the right amount of oil on his face.

Girls put foundation on which absorbs the oil unless we do the same the skin will become oily and sometimes get too dry depending on how your skin is. If you have a physical job then it'll get to that

condition faster. This keeping the skin perfect can only work if you are going for a night out and for a certain time you can make sure everything is in perfect condition. Day over day it'll be immensely

hard to stay top notch and would it be worth it ? leaving your carefree attitude to worry about "what if a girl is really close to my face and saw some of my dark heads" ?

 

[zinc4]

my front two teeth have bonding from a bicycle accident when i was a kid and one just broke off a few months ago and i have been walking around with only half of my front left tooth in place looking like a vampire....i have no idea why women haven't been more turned off by this...though i am sure it has cost a me a few potential ONS...i am going to get it capped and fixed two weeks from now...

i really need it for job interviews when i get back to the states...appearance goes a long way in both career and dating success....anyone who says otherwise is in denial...

 

[PeasantPlayer]

This thread had potential until you implied blue eyes are nicer then brown eyes. If you are going to make your opinions known like that I would like to let you know my opinions especially on ethnic males that have colored eyes look like cats or lizards and make them look feminine. Colored eyes is a fad and I get more lay then my boys with my DARK warm manly brown eyes. No man should wear contacts unless they have vision problems.....and brown hair is boring? What are you some white washed latino. I agree with the tan part, but I hardly see women checking for blondes dudes....