Here's the scoop. Known this chick for 5 yrs. Haven't talked for 2 years until about a month ago. Been on 3 dates together, she always follows up. 3rd date was hot & heavy, but still no sex.
I live an hour away (she lives w/ bunch of family, so sex at her place is no go), so I invited her salsa dancing in my town, her condition being she didn't have to work early the next morning. Her text response was enthusiastic finished w/ "ur really going to get this salsa down!" That was the DTF in my mind. Of course she has to work. Tells me that she would love to hang out with me again, so maybe this wknd, that is if I don't have any plans.
I told her I'd be in town for a BBQ & we could go together. I called her the next day & gave her the specifics. Then called her the day of, she said she had gone to the doctor & gotten antibiotics for strep throat & didn't want to get me sick. I'm immediately thinking NEXT her, but she's my main plate. She had sounded congested the day before & when I talked to her.
During the BBQ I shot her a txt "hope you're feeling better".. she hit me right away with text saying she was, what she was doing, and hows the BBQ. I didn't respond, but caught her on FB the next morning, so I follow-up w/ my eventful night (beat a sobriety test, had a gun pulled on me, yeah- exciting).
Later in the evening I get "hey Trav! Just wanted to wish you a gnite
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I hate texting, so I call her- turns into a 40min phone conversation. A couple times through it, the call is dropped. She calls back every time. Eventually I get tired of listening to her, tell her I'm going to read a new book I bought, peace.
Trying to stay out of friendzone here. 40min phone call WTF? I'm wondering if this is just making up for the time we would have spent talking if we had actually gone on a date this week, if she's missing me, or just trying to spin her own plates.
I live an hour away (she lives w/ bunch of family, so sex at her place is no go), so I invited her salsa dancing in my town, her condition being she didn't have to work early the next morning. Her text response was enthusiastic finished w/ "ur really going to get this salsa down!" That was the DTF in my mind. Of course she has to work. Tells me that she would love to hang out with me again, so maybe this wknd, that is if I don't have any plans.
I told her I'd be in town for a BBQ & we could go together. I called her the next day & gave her the specifics. Then called her the day of, she said she had gone to the doctor & gotten antibiotics for strep throat & didn't want to get me sick. I'm immediately thinking NEXT her, but she's my main plate. She had sounded congested the day before & when I talked to her.
During the BBQ I shot her a txt "hope you're feeling better".. she hit me right away with text saying she was, what she was doing, and hows the BBQ. I didn't respond, but caught her on FB the next morning, so I follow-up w/ my eventful night (beat a sobriety test, had a gun pulled on me, yeah- exciting).
Later in the evening I get "hey Trav! Just wanted to wish you a gnite
"I hate texting, so I call her- turns into a 40min phone conversation. A couple times through it, the call is dropped. She calls back every time. Eventually I get tired of listening to her, tell her I'm going to read a new book I bought, peace.
Trying to stay out of friendzone here. 40min phone call WTF? I'm wondering if this is just making up for the time we would have spent talking if we had actually gone on a date this week, if she's missing me, or just trying to spin her own plates.