Breaking a girl's heart early on, is the key to success.

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Maybe a month or two in, when she is thinking about you nonstop, telling her friends and family about you. Go have a date with her. Show her a helluva time, leave and text her " I've kinda been thinking about things"... she'll probably follow up with smiley faces wondering what you'll say then explain "it may be best if we just take a break." Or something to that effect.

As sick an demented as this may sound. I've done it before and it worked, the girl was a quality girl and we lived together for a few years,.and I did this tactic after date 4 or 5. I had her in the palm of my hand after I did this. Before I get bashed for this advice. Hear me out real quick, any meaning full start to something requires a death followed by rebirth. It takes a breakdown to have a breakthrough,etc. Break that wild horse in, and she'll be yours.

 

[JohnChops]

Well someone said I was sick and demented in my last thread but honestly it's the guys who bash who don't get laid lol.

Not sure if I would do this and people here will say "no mind games" and yet we all have little games we play. But if it works for you then no need to try something different.

 

[TheException]

Not sure if I would do this and people here will say "no mind games" and yet we all have little games we play. But if it works for you then no need to try something different.

Well heres the thing about "mind games"....

Why do them when you can experience success without having to harm someone? I dont get it.....if everything is going well with a woman like the OP stated, why damage it? A very confusing and unnecessary tactic.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

@The exception. It's because there are many guys like myself who've gone through the infatuation phase with very hot women, for her to dump you later on. One mistake I've made is thinking that I've worked my charm, this girl is hot and quality and sees all my qualities, I'll just keep doing what I'm doing and maybe this will turn into something. That's the wrong mentality, it's always calmest before the storm. The idea behind my theory is that you strike while the iron is hot. When this girl is melting for you. Slam that hammer down and forge the steel. I assure you any hot woman is thinking something similar as well. This method won't work all the time, nor will any method. but when it does work it works quite well.

 

[Robert28]

Well heres the thing about "mind games"....

Why do them when you can experience success without having to harm someone? I dont get it.....if everything is going well with a woman like the OP stated, why damage it? A very confusing and unnecessary tactic.

Because that's how dating has evolved into the b.s. it is today. The moment you think "yeah everything is going great with this girl, I'm so in love!" the next thing you know YOU'RE the one getting the text of "we need to talk about things". Trust me, I think it's damn stupid to have to play all these dumb mind games with women but it's what has to be done to have success.

 

[Partizan]

Please shoot me if I ever have to resort to these tactics.

 

[SgtSplacker]

As fuucked up as it sounds a little suffering from desire is a very powerful tool to have with women. Make them suffer dude, it suits them much better than it does us.

Nothing seals in the fact you want something more than having it taken away when you are enjoying it most...

Look at how many threads are started around here about women wanting time, treating their men poorly, seeing other guys or just losing interest. This one tactic abolishes all of that and the only catch is you have to do it when things are going awesome not when they are already crap.

The women that are most dedicated to me today are the ones I have had the most difficult time with in the past.

 

[VikingKing]

It really does work very well. I did it to my ex, but it wasn't premeditated. The honeymoon stage was great, for both of us. Once you can give a girl that feeling she will keep wanting it.

I would just get bored of her and she would pick up on it immediately and try many different things to get me interested again. Sometimes qualifying to me, doing things for me, surprising me with something. For example one time she suprised me by sewing these two pink heart shaped pillows with our first initial on each. I walked in from work and she was so excited she could barely contain herself. I think she expected me to be as happy about it as she was, i literally didn't care, and I think her heart broke a little. I mean i said "oh, thats great, thanks." but my action showed I didn't care.

I promised to quit drinking and smoking weed, but it was always tomorrow, or next week...

As I got worse and worse she was planning with surgical accuracy of how many kids we were going to have, how north carolina is the best place to live because its conservative, living is cheap, and there are good jobs. How we were going to have a traditional Chinese wedding in China, and how I was going to meet her entire extended family all in one day :nervous:

Her father found me an her were living together through her chinese circle (think the ex bf) and he would call her weekly, and she would argue with him for sometimes 2 hours, trying to convince her to not date an American. Their were also many long letters written between him and her about me.


Near the end when I was in real bad shape, drinking and on pills, she went through all the trouble to get a joint bank account, and checks with both our names on them. I was like...ok... I was like "ok" and she got real upset and said "You know in traditional China, when a womans husband dies, she kill herself." .......

I said "well you don't have to do that for you." I couldn't wrap my head around this comment.

The whole relationship consisted of her trying to get the relationship to work, and me pulling away. I fvcked off nearly the whole time. The more I fvcked off, the more she tried.

I think she hates me to this day. Honestly, I shouldn't have let it go on for so long. I wasn't ready for that type of commitment.

 

[VikingKing]

But to much a$$hole game will backfire. I did for me. I went beta pretty hard, but she waited until I was firmly in that position before she left. They want you to chase and validate their rationalization.

Had I just let her go and gone nc, she would have came running back.

The first time, after a week of being ignored, I started talking to some other chick, and went nc for two days, guess who called me. Even came and svcked my **** once, then left again.

No matter how much power you may have had or any other reason, once you feel its over, its fvcking over, and you better walk away immediately.

When you do that, you can usually have them on call. I had that once to. Broke up with a girl because something seemed wrong, went nc, found another who dumped me. called girl one up that night, and she came running and dtf.

You should never feel bad for women. Don't care how good she appeared to be.

Always walk away. Never explain.

 

[JohnChops]

As fuucked up as it sounds a little suffering from desire is a very powerful tool to have with women. Make them suffer dude, it suits them much better than it does us.

Nothing seals in the fact you want something more than having it taken away when you are enjoying it most...

Look at how many threads are started around here about women wanting time, treating their men poorly, seeing other guys or just losing interest. This one tactic abolishes all of that and the only catch is you have to do it when things are going awesome not when they are already crap.

The women that are most dedicated to me today are the ones I have had the most difficult time with in the past.

this is the complete opposite thing as to what your said in my thread lolololol, thats funny. i see your views are not static.