"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Breakdown of Male Looks

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Iceberg said:
Well if you don't actually enjoy being in shape, then sure. Spend your money on escorts. And while you're at it, hard drugs.
Enjoy being in shape is a by-product not the core goal. My gym trainer is aiming for a "beach boy" look not a body-building look to accomidate this goal.

Iceberg said:
It's not just a matter of getting muscles. There's also the issue of having a crap personality.
If you can not get your foot in the door in the first place then what does your game or personality mean?

Iceberg said:
And yeah, I'm going to guess that the guy who considers allocating his gym money into escort money might be a bit weird, and not too fun to hang out with.
It's obvious that I will be searching for other threads about before and after stories of people who have gone to the gym and what this has done for their confidence if this half-wit is the only reply to my post.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kind of disappointed that people are weighing height so importantly lol. I'm only 5'9'' without shoes. Not the end of the world though I guess.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Hair is also a slightly bigger percentage. A hot shaggy or messy or spiky hair gives plenty of points, especially for young guys.

A good buzz or shaved head can also be a big improvement for some guys.

Receding hair is a slight minus. Thinning is a bit more of a minus. Crown balding is worst, but not a game destroyer if the rest of your look works IME.
And a shaved head is an easy (and the only effective) treatment for a receding hairline. Chicks like a guy who has hair or is bald, but not a guy who's in the process of going bald.

SoSerene said:
Kind of disappointed that people are weighing height so importantly lol. I'm only 5'9'' without shoes. Not the end of the world though I guess.
Yeah I'm 'bout 5'10" and I've only once run into a hot chick who was taller than me, a 6'-somethin' red-headed amazon of a babe. Most girls are in the 5'4" range and I rarely see them going out with guys who are taller than 6', after all there can be some issues if there is a major size difference between partners.
 

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sheesh, guys, it's 90+% about the size of your wallet and your percieved status in the community, not about your looks. Very little of the latter.
 

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I'm 5'5. When people first meet me, they are shocked a short guy like me can have so much success with women. The funny thing is some people will tell me that it's BECAUSE I'm short that I get laid. Apparently my height is a built-in-stealth-under-the-radar blessing from God.

Funny the excuses people will create to prevent themselves from achieving success.

My height is never the problem. Sometimes the girl's height is...but I've been known to make compromises ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know a bartender who's 5'5, kindda goofy looking, lives in his parents pool house... and.....

oh fvck, what does it matter, you dumb cvnt @ss trolls don't care...

50% excuses...
50% nerd...

that's your fvcking problem...
 

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Honestly, up until now I thought like most of you. But after seeing that most males outside look pretty much alike - well groomed, plucked eyebrows, built-up body and fancy shirts...Now I realise that the true difference and greatness must come from the inside first.


bukowski_merit said:
I know a bartender who's 5'5, kindda goofy looking, lives in his parents pool house... and.....

oh fvck, what does it matter, you dumb cvnt @ss trolls don't care...

50% excuses...
50% nerd...

that's your fvcking problem...
Kudos to you.
 
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