"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's the deal. My girlfriend of a yr just broke up with me yesterday, after we had an argument (we had been experiencing different problems each not in our relationship). I was devastated, and she said could we meet the next day, so that she could 'explain', I said that there wasn't much point, as it wouldn't help either of us, she didn't want to be with me anymore. I said that I loved her, and that if she did want to take me back, I would be waiting for her at the place she said she wanted to meet me to explain. If she didn't turn up, I would assume that she didn't want to get back together and work through these problems together.

She didn't turn up. I go to get a bus home, she's standing there with two of her friends who are comforting her. We both get on the bus, she sits in the seat furthest away...i midway through the journey go up and say can't we just sort all this out....she says that she wanted to explain, but i said 'whats the point'?, then she started crying & told me2go away!

How should I handle this now, should I just keep as much distance as possible, how do situations like this normally resolve themselves?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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banGbro

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When someone is pushing you away, you should push them away, further. If you pull them closer to you while they are pushing, they will just push harder.

Dont talk to her, dont see her, dissappear and date other people. If she has sh1t at your place, gather it up, put it into boxes, and give it to someone, such as a friend or something.



She hurt you, anything but moving on right away is called being used as an emotional tampax. Her explaining why for example. Fvck the b1tch. The only thing that will make her respect you is if you move on and dont make a big deal about it. Thats a desirable quality for women.



Chances are shes breaking up because shes a cheater. Her explaining it to you is rediculous and is meant to make herself feel better about herself.
 
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You do not handle this.

Sorry, you are dead meat.

The bright side is: Welcome to the DJ Forum!

Go read the DJ Bible.

You'll be fine.
 
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