"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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Tomatoes said:
Nah. Because she would see that as him forgiving her. Then she would keep pestering you until you DID show emotion or attitude.
If you decide to show emotions because she was pestering you afterwords then you are doing it wrong. She is already out of your equation as a result of her cheatings. She might think you forgave her but you on the other hand will buy your time by trying to hook up with other girls while still fvcking her and then when you find someone better, you simply drop her our of your rotation (her actions not her words already spoken that she wants to hook up with others and therefore you have every right to do the same) Its up to you to get the best what you can out of a bad situation.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think you would need to be a pretty emotionless person if you can still fvck her after that (assuming this is true by the way)....

but - if you could do it, that would be the way to do it.
 
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