"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Break Up Problems...

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TheCarGuyA4

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k broke up with the girl yesterday for various reasons. I gave her the "Let's just stay friends" speach, but now she is talking to me way more than she ever did and it's a little wierd for me. How can I dull down all of this "super close friendshio" stuff without being brutally honest. Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Smooth Player 056

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Tell her she was a big part of your life and you want to remain firends but you need some time away from her for a while to get ur thoughts back in order. by that time she will haved moved on.



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