break-up (good move?)

[gruby]

So i "kinda" broke up with gf of 8 months beacuse of infrequent sex.

When we started out we were banging each other every day but nowdays i'm lucky if it's 2 times every 2 weeks. We spend lots of time together (we both freelance so sometimes we have a week or more off) so that lack of sex is getting on my nerves. She used to blame it on the pill (lack of sex drive) but now when she's off the pill it's still the same. SHe appologizes for her lack of physical attraction but can't give any reason why it's so. I know she's not cheating on me so it has to be something else. It might have something to do that i'm 26 and she's 30... i don't know.

We had the conversation today in the morning where i stated that she's amazeing (she is) but our sexual incompatibility is probably too much for me to take (meaning we should break up). ...The usuall, she started crying and telling me how she never loved anyone as much as she loves me etc. I know she wants to work things out (which i do too) but i want to make sure that 2 weeks from now i won't be back in the same no-sex situation. How do you guys think i should handle the situation?

 

[MightyMate]

I had this problem. My girl was on pills all the time tho. We used to have great really great sex at start, even like 5 times a day! Later after like half of year she stopped wanting to have sex. She said i want too many times. Im a lazy guy, well so we still used to have sex each day, sometimes 2 times in day but she wasnt really feeling it. She was only doing it coz i wanted. LAter on we started to have sex like 3 times a week because of her. We had fights for this but after week of sex it was back like that. I got pissed off, started cheatin but after some time i even lost my wants for cheating. So later on we were having sex like once in 4 days and i was feeling ok with it. Then she started saying i dont want. But i ****in really didnt want it anymore. Shes stressed me too much. Later on stuff was like, i was gettign sex when i wanted but i didnt want much anymore.. Dunno if it helps You.

 

[DJDamage]

How do you guys think i should handle the situation?

You are already handling it, break up with her. Just like giving a woman attention and emotional support during an LTR is a deal breaker for them so is sex for us. If men do not get enough sex then LTR is not worth their time. If she can't compromise and satisfy your needs even if she is not in the mood then get out.

DJD