"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Breadcrumbs

anonymous12345

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What I detest as a man is the eventual necessity of accepting breadcrumbs. To look forward, something you always can do, hence moot. Positivity is considered good, but it conceals that it is acceptance of sh1t.

One example is r3tard-motivational speakers. For instance, this guy born without legs and arms, that goes on about how great life is. Dumb as fck, and has comprehension issues too. Most of them end up like clowns, of course. What else?

They don’t have standards. They are weak. Adaptation is not strength. They can’t handle the cognitive dissonans, break, start mumbling bs. Never forget. The samurais you can respect.

There is a speech by Jerry Seinfeld where he says he has to accept some dumb award, because he has no choice. That’s the rule for men, we don’t have choice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The biggest irony here is talking bad about a handicapped individual without functioning limbs and forever bound to a chair, living a very "privileged life".
 
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