"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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e-lie

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Has anyone been 2 brazil I've been there twice love it any tips on traveling there? :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There are plenty of them here in the USA and they are beautiful but crazy.
 

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HAHA I knew you were gonna reply!
 

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Lol. My room mate and I made a trip to brazil last year. The roles are almost reversed there. Hot, and I mean smoking hot, girls overtly hit on foreign guys when you go there. They will literally fight each other to get at you if you have any sense of style. After hours parties for that particular week were spectacular.
 

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I wanted to fall in love with a Brazillian stipper but she played me real good and gave me a fake number.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon said:
Lol. My room mate and I made a trip to brazil last year. The roles are almost reversed there. Hot, and I mean smoking hot, girls overtly hit on foreign guys when you go there. They will literally fight each other to get at you if you have any sense of style. After hours parties for that particular week were spectacular.
Where exactly was this. I spent some time in Rio, but had very little luck. All I found was hookers, and rich stuck up braz girls who think they are the sh!t.

If you remember the song, "girl from Ipa Nema," it says, "every day when she walks to the sea, she looks straight ahead not at me." The words exist for a reason. I did however have a much easier time in the country side where the girls are much friendlier.
 

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lol - I don't know what he said since he's on my ignore list, but it's moments like this that reinforce my resolve to continue using the forum tools to make it a better place for ME. hahahaha. Try it.

As far as Brazilian girls, I've never been (yet) but so far for me filipinas are the most consistently hot and sweet women I've ever met.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
Whatever, there's some blazing hot Brazillian hookers.
Ding ding ding!!!
 

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I see a future where American Men will give up on American Girls. They'll marry hot Foreign Women assuming that these Foreign Women are less stuck up, only to discover they were tickets to a green card.

Alas these Foreign Women would end up just like American Women, because after the green card is attained they become American Women.

Sucks doesn't it. Hahaha!

Anyway Brazilian women are smoking hot. And the hot stuck up ones are the most emotionally unstable of the bunch, makes for great sex.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ZenGodMod said:
Alas these Foreign Women would end up just like American Women, because after the green card is attained they become American Women.
Getting a green card doesn't magically go back in time and erase the 20+ years they spent being raised to embrace their femininity. I have known more than a dozen foreign women married to Americans, from Hungary, Philippines, Russia and Thailand. The vast majority stayed very sweet and female and make fantastic wives for the men they are with.

Of course nothing is 100%, but the odds seem vastly better.
 

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bigjohnson said:
Getting a green card doesn't magically go back in time and erase the 20+ years they spent being raised to embrace their femininity. I have known more than a dozen foreign women married to Americans, from Hungary, Philippines, Russia and Thailand. The vast majority stayed very sweet and female and make fantastic wives for the men they are with.

Of course nothing is 100%, but the odds seem vastly better.
You can also argue that not all American Women are beatches....."nothing is 100%".
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
There are plenty of them here in the USA and they are beautiful but crazy.
I get you.... I met a couple of brazilian girls here and they are nuts.....
 

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Hey I live on the beach here in miami and u get alot of eurotrash but the brazilian girls r slamming I like salvador brazil it's so amazing do any of u have any travel tips to save money going there I read alot of tim ferris blogs and they r helpful. :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My family lives in brazil so I visit there alot. Unfortunately I still can't speak portuguese but most of my family can. brazilian chicks ARE fine, but most south american latinas are...like columbians and venezuelans.

the best tip for Brazil is to not look like a tourist, and I'm not saying this because of that turistas movie. If you wear very clean white sneakers they almost automatically can tell your a turista.
 

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ZenGodMod said:
You can also argue that not all American Women are beatches....."nothing is 100%".

How about 50%, as in there is a statistical 50% chance an American woman will file for divorce after an American man marries her?
 

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bigjohnson said:
How about 50%, as in there is a statistical 50% chance an American woman will file for divorce after an American man marries her?
Um.. men also file for divorce.
 

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I went to Brazil when I was 17.

The coastal cities are the best imo.. They're packed with gorgeous women.

Each city has their own special little carinval festival thingy going on. The nightlife doesn't start to pick up until like midnight. It is fvcking crazy.

The Brazilian culture is very sexually orientated. I have stories you would not believe.

I recommend Recife, Natal, Brasilia.
 

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Can you two idiots stop discussing divorce in a thread about Brazilian women? Show the Brazilian women some fvcking respect. They're the hottest women on the planet. No fvcking doubt about it.

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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