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Brazil Trip Observations

sickofit

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I just spent ten months in Brazil and wanted to share my outlook on things. Brazil is an enormous country, and the quality of women and the range from socially conservative to liberal varies a lot. Here are some things to consider if anyone is planning a trip there.

There is a major difference in culture between the north and the south. I would personally vouge for the north being quite a bit easier in general for hooking up, and more relaxed people. In the south, Florianopolis was the most vanilla gringo place of everywhere I visited, not a particularly good place for game, and quite boring. Fun to visit for a weekend to go surfing if you're into that, and that's about it. I was bored to tears after a few days and the people aren't particularly friendly compared to other parts, also lots of stuck up international people.

After that I went to Curitiba and ended up seeing a girl there for a few weeks. But aside from her, I wouldn't say it was particularly great place for game. Also pretty boring place and fairly vanilla. When I realized I wasn't that into this girl, I decided to try my luck in Sao Paulo. This proved to be a good decision.

Sao Paulo is an enormous city so you're likely to luck out with somebody. Very active dating apps, quality I would say was better than Curitiba, but not outstanding. I ended up spending a month there, and was able to hook up with someone new from apps each week. Lots of crackheads in the city and mostly ghetto but the neighborhood I stayed in was decent enough. This would definitely be my choice over Rio since Rio is very played out now, and more full of scammers.

Rio has beautiful beaches but is also filled with plenty of crackheads from the favelas. Gamewise it would be second worse after Florianopolis. It's worth going to see it for a couple days but I would certainly not make it your main focus.

As mentioned, the North will likely be your best option for hookups. Recife, Natal and Fortaleza, while very ugly ghetto cities with maybe one or two decent neighborhoods, had the easiest girls of anywhere I went. However, quality is not the best. Out of these I would say Fortaleza probably had the best quality, but is dangerous as hell.

I spent the most time in this village called Jericoacoara, a few hours from Fortaleza, which had better quality because it attracts rich girls from all over Brazil. I spent three months here and had some success on dating apps but not nearly as much as the bigger cities, mainly because there are less people on them. But it was a decent town without all the ghetto crime so it was more enjoyable to stay in for a while. Pipa is also a decent option, about an hour from Natal, but too many obnoxious digital nomads there for my taste.

I found girls in Colombia and Argentina significantly more attractive than Brazilians, but Brazilian girls are more laid back and don't **** test as much as those women. You will still find places that are socially conservative though and they are a total waste of time. For some reason, Joao Pessoa was like this while Recife was not. Salvador had surprisingly conservative girls as well. I heard good things about Belo Horizonte but never went there.

These are just some observations and I'm curious what other people have to say who've been there.
 

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Florianopolis - beautiful women but the approaches went badly as i couldn't speak Portuguese, English ability is pretty poor in that city. If you're an attractive person who speaks Portuguese i think you will flourish there - did some nightgame with an english wing- nothing - women were stunning but they just weren't interested in me in the slightest.

Belo-Horizonte - my best success and my only ever tinder lay came from here and she was a stunner- said she only dated me because Brazilian men were too aggressive and forward . She spoke excellent English too which helped a lot.

Sau Paulo- didn't have any success but the quality was good - i wasn't quite into daygame momentum when i went

Porto Alagre- Got laid with one stunner here in Colombia but when i went to meet her 3 months later she turned cold when we hung out and we stopped seeing each other. Pretty strange. had a couple tinder matches but they couldn't meet due to time constraints- they weren't particularly attractive anyway. Again the one girl i got laid with spoke excellent English and had studied in Europe so it made building rapport 100 times easier .

Rio-Di Janiro - again i just didn't approach enough - made out with one English girl in a hostel thats about it - a lot of attractive women though.

San - Salvador- made out with an Argentinan super model , approached her using google translate- said "you look like a gangster's girlfriend i better come meet you before he finds out about us" translated into google - she laughed a lot and we made out - then tried to get her back to my hotel and she flaked- spoke with her on facebook for 3 days but she just didn't want to meet- It was the first time i'd ever made out with a "semi famous" person. Could've been a lot better, i guess if i spoke spanish maybe things would've gone better? but the gut feeling is she would've flaked regardless. San Salvadorian women are extremely forward but really not attractive - a couple of them would just come up to me and say " you wanna ****" - 3/10 looking girls

Recife - went to a nightclub there the vibe was good but nothing hooked . I was also extremely tired.

all from 2017 - i really wasn't approaching enough and if i spoke Portuguese i think it would make a huge difference and led to much better interactions overall.
 

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Florianopolis - beautiful women but the approaches went badly as i couldn't speak Portuguese, English ability is pretty poor in that city. If you're an attractive person who speaks Portuguese i think you will flourish there - did some nightgame with an english wing- nothing - women were stunning but they just weren't interested in me in the slightest.

Belo-Horizonte - my best success and my only ever tinder lay came from here and she was a stunner- said she only dated me because Brazilian men were too aggressive and forward . She spoke excellent English too which helped a lot.

Sau Paulo- didn't have any success but the quality was good - i wasn't quite into daygame momentum when i went

Porto Alagre- Got laid with one stunner here in Colombia but when i went to meet her 3 months later she turned cold when we hung out and we stopped seeing each other. Pretty strange. had a couple tinder matches but they couldn't meet due to time constraints- they weren't particularly attractive anyway. Again the one girl i got laid with spoke excellent English and had studied in Europe so it made building rapport 100 times easier .

Rio-Di Janiro - again i just didn't approach enough - made out with one English girl in a hostel thats about it - a lot of attractive women though.

San - Salvador- made out with an Argentinan super model , approached her using google translate- said "you look like a gangster's girlfriend i better come meet you before he finds out about us" translated into google - she laughed a lot and we made out - then tried to get her back to my hotel and she flaked- spoke with her on facebook for 3 days but she just didn't want to meet- It was the first time i'd ever made out with a "semi famous" person. Could've been a lot better, i guess if i spoke spanish maybe things would've gone better? but the gut feeling is she would've flaked regardless. San Salvadorian women are extremely forward but really not attractive - a couple of them would just come up to me and say " you wanna ****" - 3/10 looking girls

Recife - went to a nightclub there the vibe was good but nothing hooked . I was also extremely tired.

all from 2017 - i really wasn't approaching enough and if i spoke Portuguese i think it would make a huge difference and led to much better interactions overall.
100% correct that portugese is necessary to get the most out of it. I couldn’t get by with Spanish and probably missed out on a lot better quality by being clueless with portugese. Not easy to learn compared to Spanish either.

Overall I wouldn’t say I was impressed enough to spend 8 hours on a flight to get there again. Other decent options are closer
 

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Just curious, vacation for 10mo? Or work?
 

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