"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Brazil - have you been?

Heretolearn

Master Don Juan
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Hey,

Anyone ever been? Whats it like for a white guy who does not speak Portugese?

My friend said to go during Carnivale if I want to kiss lots of girls. Whats it like throughout the year vs Carnivale if anyone has been.

Over-rated? Where else do you recommend as party places?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Radharc

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Are you planning to just go on your own or with friends?

A lonely "white" guy who doesn´t speak portuguese can be a target in both good ways and bad ways. Sure, some chicks will dig the "blond blue-eyed gringo", but you should also be carefull in Rio about where you go or you can become another kind of target. Allways check with the ppl in your hotel where you can and can´t go, and the safe ways to go.

Carnaval is during the summer there, and sure its a crazy celebration, depends on what you´re looking for I suppose.
 
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