This is THE show every member of this forum should be watching. Bucketloads of great advice on it such as " vaginas are fun to play with but after You play u get bored and something tangible ( being able to converse with the lady) should be there" AND " the ladies who are most valuable will make it difficult for you to some degree and rightfully so" . I dont miss this show cos it's very informative.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bravo's "The Millionaire Matchmaker"
- Thread starter Zarky
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Well, are they AFCs or self-centered narcissistic a-holes? Which is it? Don't they teach you around here to be a self-centered narcissistic a-hole? Wouldn't such a person think he is "the prize"?Zarky said:
Ladies should make it difficult for guys to have sex with them. Should they just screw any guy who approaches them? Then they'd be useless slvts. What I like is a woman who will resist, but has such high interest in me that she drops all her defenses. That's the way it should be.YAboi said: